...Should Girls Ask Boys Out? Outline Thesis: Although boys have always asked girls out, why can't girls return the favor; society today has changed and girls are asking boys out. I. Almost everybody is taught that tradition has always been that the boy has to ask the girl out, because this shows that he can be a man and take charge. a. This tradition goes back far as the eighteenth century. b. Most boys who took interest in a girl they liked or were attracted to, nine times out of ten wanted to get to know her and in doing so by asking her out. c. A girl will never understand how much pressure and sense of masculine it puts on a boy to ask a girl out. II. Nowadays, people live in a civilized society with a continuous development. d. Women are stronger and more confident about themselves and certain situations than women in the past. e. Boys do not know how to handle rejection or failure, so they think that they can avoid rejection or failure by not asking a girl out all together. f. Boys would sometimes prefer for a girl to ask them out. III. For those who agree with the idea or for those who do not, there are however pros and cons to asking a boy out. g. It seems sensible to go after what you want and take initiative. h. If he feels like you are extremely interested he might not be that interested. i. As one becomes more skilled, one’s chances of finding, appreciating, and deserving a more satisfying...
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...A Look into a Guys Mind Amber Guenon Tall, dark, and handsome are just some characteristics that a female would want in her man. Throw in a crooked smile and a warm body to cuddle up with, and a girl would be set and stone with this guy. But, wait she’s dreaming she could never get a guy like that unless he’s looking for the same thing, right? What does a guy look for in a girl anyway? Do they want skinny, blonde, dumb, and will absolutely do anything for him (like make a sandwich)? That is what most girls would believe about a guy, that all they care about is looks and sex. Well that isn’t the case so I have found out recently. I have created a survey with 15 simple questions that I know a guy would understand; I had 25 men take this survey and be completely honest throughout the questions. Guys ranged through the high school from 15-17 years of age, all who have different outcomes of what they look for in a girl. First will be body type, second will be about the women sense of style, and thirdly the women’s maturity and sex drive. Let’s see what you boys’ have said. Bodies type what could this mean to a guy? The #1 question asked, “Do you prefer a female with a small built, medium built, or a large built body?” Out of those 25 men 85% wanted a medium built woman, 10% wanted a skinny woman, and nobody wanted a bigger woman. Leading to our next question was what they’re perfect female height, weight, and age would be. The men averaged out to about 5 foot 6 inches for...
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...he’s becoming anxious And then half way through the school year he met an old face a person from his past Gradually getting close to his new found friends, he already doubts their honesty until to the point that he thinks they know something about him He is convinced that they are starting to believed the lies of that person He gradually became paranoid, disoriented and distracted After a party he confronted the girl The girl provoke him by telling stories about their past He started shouting and contradicting her stories (flashback) They both fell silent after his outburst and admission to his wrong doings The girl narrated her side telling him the lives he affected and the friendship that he wrecked Then the girl flashes her phone informing him that she recorded their conversation and his outburst He broke down and cried silently while the girl watches (background police siren) The guys is seen seating in a cot and then escorted by a uniformed man to a meeting room surrounded by glass A girl is seen to be staring at him from the other side of the glass room The girl said that he wounded her not just physically but also mentally and emotionally She said that he ruined not only a family but also a lifelong friendship but she knows that he is starting to pay for all the things that he did and that she only wishes for his recovery He just stared at her unmoved and as if not hearing...
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...Why is it that when a girl reaches puberty, her self-confidence begins to plummet? It is known that this happens in most girls and the cause behind it is mostly due to stereotypes. Always, a company for feminine hygiene products, created an advertisement that not only conveys a positive message but also helped empower girls/women ages 10-24. They use both male and females of two different age groups to raise awareness and spread a positive image about why the phrase “like a girl” should not be seen as a negative connotation. Females, all throughout time, have always been seen as inferior and weaker than men and this commercial teaches women that they need to rise up and take charge. This commercial, which went viral through social media and...
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...worked for me. You see, sometimes failing is the only way to LEARN your lesson but it should never be a reason to give up. If you think you're failing, or want to fail a whole lot less, this article is here to show you the 40 most important rules that I've learned to live by. Read them, remember them and who knows, you might actually succeed without having to fail so much 1. Don’t give a shit. Not giving a shit is hard to fake and I’ve yet to meet a successful player that cared. 2. Always scout the chicks. Going for girls that have a low "banged by you" probability just means you're wasting your time. 3. Don’t fantasize about her before having sex. Chicks are always more interesting and beautiful before the actual act, fantasizing before only makes you sad when it doesn’t happen. 4. Know the importance of alcohol. While you can take girls out for coffee, taking them out for drinks will dramatically increase your chances of scoring. 5. Stay on your toes. While approaching girls may be the easiest way to score new prospects, it’s never the only way. 6. Know how to close and do it when the time is right. 7. Approach at least 7 girls a week. If you’re not doing this, you’re not exploiting your true potential. 8. Always have an opening line. When in doubt, just say “Hi”. 9. Never go out if you’re not feeling your best, you’ll just waste everyone’s time. 10. Only compliment women when you 100% know that your compliment just got you closer to getting laid. Quite often, this doesn’t...
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...SUB-THEME-VIOLENCE AGAINST GIRL CHILD TITLE- CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE IN INDIA: A SOCIO-LEGAL ISSUES ISHA KANSAL STUDENT OF B.A.LL.B. (4th SEMESTER) DISHA LAW COLLEGE RAIPUR, CHHATTISGARH ADDRESS OF AUTHOR- Mr. Neeraj Kansal B-18/15, Sec-3 Udya society, Tatibandh Raipur (C.G.), 492001 meetishakansal@gmail.com BIOGRAPHY OF AUTHOR I am Isha Kansal, I have completed my schooling from Gyan Ganga Educational Academy, Raipur, Chhattisgarh. I am currently pursuing B.A.LL.B. (4th semester) from Disha Law College, Raipur, Chhattisgarh. I have done my internships in NGO, Indian Partnership Act, 1932 and Chhattisgarh High Court. ABSTRACT Child Sexual Abuse or child molestation is a form of child abuse in which any person uses a child for sexual stimulation. Child Sexual Abuse can be of many kinds like touching in private parts, taking obscene photos, showing child pornography picture to child etc. In India, sexual abuse against girl child has added fuel to the fire and it had made its place in one of the hot topic for debate and research in India. In Delhi, a girl aged 5 years was brutally raped by 2 men and she was left in the bushes with bleeding in her genital area. A girl who don’t know the meaning of rape is raped and due to the failure of our executive as well as judiciary...
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...Gender Gap 1 The Elementary Gender Achievement Gap ED5504 Gender Gap 2 Abstract The gender achievement gap has been written about, studied, and defined. This gap exists. It exists in the educational system and in the workplace. It begins in elementary school and continues through higher education. The gender gap can be attributed to many problems. These problems include cultural, socioeconomic, educator expectations, and student environment. Gender Gap 3 Gender equity happens when there is no difference in student achievement in relation to classroom teaching and school environment. Many factors play into the gender achievement gap. Cultural factors, race, and discrimination are part of...
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...Globally, especially in developing countries, many young children are ensnared and forced into marriage at a really young age to men twice or even three times their age. Robbing the innocence and purity of young girls is in fact an inhuman thing to do. Child marriage should come to an end throughout all countries. Child marriage is in fact a violation of human rights that exploits and strips young girls of their innocence, which then exposes them to the harsh realities of adulthood in countries where poverty and lack of education is high. Being a child means going to school, hanging out with your friends or just being at home eating junk food and watching television for long hours. In many developing countries children already know what being an adult means. Children are getting married, cooking and cleaning for their husbands, and even sleeping with them. According to Alexandra Hervish and Charlotte Feldman-Jacobs, “ In the last decade, 58 million young woman in developing countries – one in three – have been married before the age of 18, many against their will and in violation of international laws and convention of woman’s rights. Even more disturbing, according to new figures, one in nine girls, or 15 million, have been forced into marriage between the ages of 10 and 14.” Many people fail to realize that child marriage is a tradition that has been around for so many centuries. According to Prisca Jangazya of the times of Zambia, “Child marriages were influenced by cultural...
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...My Choice, Not the Governments Imagine being a ten year old innocent little girl and being pregnant. An innocent little girl was raped by her own stepfather and became impregnated. Her mother and stepfather were arrested and taken to jail. This little girl is now alone and forced by her country to have this child. She was denied to choice to have an abortion. At ten years old little girls have baby dolls that they play with, feed, and put them to bed. But does that make a child fit to have a child. Abortion should be a choice, a female choice, not the governments. The debate over abortion began January 22, 1973 in Roe v. Wade, but still many states were against abortion. In 1821, Connecticut passed their first law in the United States to have abortions by giving poison to women after the fourth month of their pregnancy. Back in the day abortions were so looked down upon that it was unheard of. Now in every 10 unintended pregnancies 4 are aborted. So approximately 1.21 million abortions happen in the United States according to Operation Rescue. Abortion should be a choice by the women and not by a man run government. In Paraguay abortion is illegal with the only exception being threat to the life of the expecting mother. If anyone were to have an abortion they are facing 15 to 30 months of prison. If anyone were to added pressure or even force an abortion on a women they are facing 2 to 10 years of prison. As you can see in this country abortion is not taken lightly....
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...regulation of how much skin girls around the country are allowed to bare. Dress codes, while usually regulating boys' slovenliness, tend to police girls for how much of their bodies are visible. Anyone who's ever painted or stood in a room surrounded by Kara Walker silhouettes can tell you that white space is defining and when we talk about dress codes, girls' skin is the white space we've all been trained to ignore in these discussions. And, while everyone is in theory affected by dress codes, girls and LGTBQ youth are disproportionately affected by them. Challenging schools to align unexamined, traditional dress codes to contemporary values is a tangible place to start if you're interested in teaching kids to live in a diverse, tolerant society. Of course, many parents are not interested. When it comes to girls, skimpy and skin-baring clothes are often the primary issue. Kids know that many words, like "unladylike," are code for "slutty." Other words that are frequently used include "distracting" and "unprofessional." Many teachers worry that girls' skin will "so addle boys' brains that they will be unable to concentrate." Boys, and apparently in Iowa, adult men who can now legally fire "irresistible" women, we are told, simply cannot concentrate in this environment. So, what exactly is wrong with saying girls are "distracting"? I mean, everyone know this, right? •Who gets to be distracted? And, whose distraction is central? What is a girl supposed to think in the morning...
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...Your First Date with a Girl Information provided by Disabled World - Published: 2009-02-12 So you successfully got a gorgeous girls phone number and it's time for you to go on the first date? Are you feeling nervous? Don't worry, guys. That's perfectly normal | The fact of the matter is that we all get nervous at some point. It's not whether or not you get nerves; it's how you handle those nerves. When you are on a date with a girl you hardly know it's always best to move at a nice pace and not force anything. There will be many openings throughout the night (if she likes you that is). Signals and positive body languages will permeate her soft skin. So you will know if she wants you to take a step further (inviting you in) or stay at bay (telling you to stay back). So how will you know if you are having a good first date? The first date is the most important date because it sets the tone. Does she feel like the date can go forever? Or does she keep looking at her watch and wondering why the time is moving so slowly? I will show you how to have the perfect first date and not screw things up. Follow these rules and she will ask you to follow her home... First thing is first... always be kind and respectful to her. I don't care if you think she is just a fling or a one night stand; treat her with some type of respect and dignity. All women like to feel cherished and appreciated. Compliment her on her beauty. Remember, she took the whole day just to get ready for the date...
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...October 2014 “Little Girls or Little Women?” Young girls are becoming increasingly involved in this worlds highly sexual environment. More and more are being captured at young ages by marketing and advertising, glamorizing fashion and new fads. Once discovering her three year old daughter, Coaimhe, becoming more concerned about beautifying herself and living like a young female adult, Author of “Little Girls or Little Women? The Disney Princess Effect”, Stephanie Hanes, Publicises how girls at young ages are becoming too involved in today’s highly sexualized environment and by investing in makeup, clothing, accessories and new hair do’s to make them look “sexy”, when in reality it’s far too inappropriate for their age group. Girls are being blinded by society’s standards for how the female body should look. They want that “sexy babe” look just like all the beautiful models they see in media and on advertisements. But many are falling into eating disorders and becoming very sick trying to do so. They become so caught up in becoming skinny that they’ll start to harm their bodies to reach their impossible goal. In an article titled...
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...Cervical Cancer Kendra Jackson June 21, 2012 Com/156 University of Phoenix Mark Koenig You can have cervical cancer and not even know it. The American Cancer Society (ACS) says that about 9.710 women will be diagnosed with cervical cancer the year of 2006. The ACS also believes that 3,700 women will die of cervical cancer in 2006. It takes cervical cancer about 10-15 years before it develops into cancer. Cervical cancer is caused by the HPV (Human Papilloma virus) all women should get tested starting at the age 16 or when they become sexually active. Some people may not know what cervical cancer is. Cervical cancer forms in tissues of the cervix the, organ that connects the uterus and vagina. It is usually a slow-growing cancer which may not exhibit symptoms, but can be detected with a regular Pap smear test (a procedure in which cells are scraped from the cervix and looked at under a microscope). Cervical cancer is almost always caused by Human Papillomavirus (HPV) infection. (www.treat-team.com) Human Papilloma virus is causes by abnormal tissues growth (warts) and is often associated with some type of cancer. HPV is contracted through sexually transmitted disease called genital human papilloma virus (also called HPV) and if not treated can turn into cervical cancer. One of the risks of having cervical cancer is Human Papillomavirus infection and this is the most important risk factor. Women who smoke are twice as likely to have cervical cancer because smoking exposes...
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...every passing lad To suit his theories. But now I know the things I know And do the things I do, And if you do not like me so, To hell, my love, with you.” ― Dorothy Parker, Many early theories suggested that self-esteem is a basic human need or motivation. American psychologist Abraham Maslow included self-esteem in his hierarchy of needs. According to him, individuals cannot grow without the fulfillment of the self-esteem need. Also, he suggested that individuals aspire for self-actualization as well. The model given by him is- Self-esteem is important because it is concerned about ourselves and about our sense of personal value. Thus, it affects the way we are and...
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...They Sold My Sister Summary: The story begins with a little girl watching her parents accept gifts from suitors at their house. The little girl, Naliki, knows that her parents are selling her sister Nyamalo. Naliki thinks the man who is going to marry her sister is very ugly and she is not happy about the idea of her sister being sold. The father tells his son to get Nyamalo from school so they can tell her, but he refuses because he also feels it is wrong. The father gets her and after the wedding Naliki has to live with the groom and the bride for two weeks. She could not go through with it as the husband is very aggressive. Nyamalo comes to terms with her marriage and understands that she just needs to learn to love her husband. Two years later Naliki overhears a conversation with her father and a fat man and she is afraid. She knows that she also will be sold, but she will not let them take her. She will run. Characterization: Naliki is a little girl living with her parents somewhere in Africa. She is twelve years old when the story is told, in the beginning of the story she is 10 (P 13, Ll 1-2). She is very sneaky and curious, as she eavesdrops on a lot of conversations that she should not be hearing, by hiding behind a bag of maize (P 13, Ll 12-15). Naliki is quite rebellious against the old traditions of selling people. Her mother obviously came to terms with it, but Naliki would never go through with it, which is why she is determined to run away (P 17, L 16)....
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