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The world’s perception of the Black Woman in the eyes of one lost. Silent cries and invisible tears is what many deal with to keep the strength of our persona alive to the world. Shouts for help muffled by this strength we wear so well. A world of beautiful black faces scared with visible and invisible burses for a society that fails to notice the pain and hurt. Security that black women are forced to make for themselves seems to be a resentment of the men that should be the keepers of such a title. Is it a sign of weakness to show the venerable side of the portrayed black women of today? Is asking to be secure and protected for harm whether it be physically, emotionally, or financially a sign of being an over bearing woman or lack of a better word "bitch"? Why ask, demand it and accept nothing less. The words we speak come out loud and strong, but not to make a scene, it is to have our voices heard that continue to be muffled by the way a black woman is seen. Strong yes and able to endure more than most yet looked down upon if one voices a cry for help. See the blood officer!!! Help me!!! Calm down ma'am, can you tell me how you started this situation? Who cares it's neither here nor there. Is this the way I perceive the way a black woman should be? I allowed the thought of a family to interfere with my true self and with doing so killed off anything right. I have allowed my children also young black women to see me turned into nothing but convenience. They will not see that I endured all to make their lives better but as the weak woman that allowed a man to use her over and over and turn her into a an over reacting nothing that voice will not be heard because he made each word hold no merit. No I allowed myself to make my word, my heart, and my feelings mute due to allowing all that was wrong to continue to happen repeatedly. This was not my first assault done by him it was the first dual assault that he still has no problem with. I care when the first happened. I do care that this is the last and I see no way out other than death. I envy those that are able to take matter into their own hands because believe it or not they are the strong ones. I always knew I did not belong here and tried all my life to pray to leave but fail due to fear. I take a stand today and that stand is to not be. I worried about how I would be handled in death when I should have focused more on how I was handled in life. I would like my ashes to be scattered to the wind and a small portion lay upon my son's grave so that I may be with him 1 last time. My legacy was to cause hell and show how you are to be. I hope they learn I was not to be followed.

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