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Waking up not knowing where I was or what was going on. Only to see my mother and father in tears along with my sisters, I will never forget the look on each one of their faces till the day I die and long after. Sheer disappointment and fear is all I could see in their eyes. As I slowly started to regain my consciousness I began to realize what was going on. I was in a hospital bed, IV syringes and defibrillator patches all over my body. I was in the 10th grade, I was on top of the world. Perfect set up; friends, cars, family, loved everywhere and loved everyone around me. However I was extremely ungrateful, took everything for granted and at the time I did not realize how blessed I was. Was taking everything for granted. I felt like the rules did not apply to me. I had everything a kid at my age could ask for. Being the only boy sibling of four other sisters I was spoiled rotten. The answer ‘no’ was never on the table for me. Little did I know my life was about to take a turn for the worst but also turned out to be one of the best learning experiences as well. It all started one random night my cousins, friends and I met up as usual at my house for a little get-together. We got a case of beer and started drinking with no plans of heading down town. We figured we would stay in our compound have a couple beers, a few laughs and call it a night. Little did we know that what was to come would never be forgotten or be changed. One beer after the other things started to escalate. Our chill normal night was on the road to becoming a total disaster. Five drunken teenage hormonal boys with no sane mind amongst us, we decided to sneak into my fathers’ liquor cabinet and ‘borrow’ a bottle of whiskey. Which at the time seemed to be the only ‘rational’ decision we could take. The drunker we got the more ‘sane and rational’ ideas kept coming to mind of course. Me being the drunkest / ‘sanest’ one of us all, I came up with my best idea at the time. We were going to also temporarily ‘borrow’ one of my fathers’ cars and go down town to met up with some friends. Seeing as how clearly I was thinking it made perfect sense in my mind to take my fathers 4x4. Which was his pride and joy he was away on a business trip and no one was never allowed to drive it. It was his little baby. Seeing as how he was not in town the rule no longer applied his ‘baby’ that was off limits to even my mother was fair play now. We all got in and were on way to make the biggest mistake of our premature adult lives. My best friend at the time had also always fancied my fathers car and begged me for ages to take it for a spin. Being in my state of mind it took him no convincing me this time. All he had to do was ask. So I got in the passenger seat and let him drive and we were on our way and that was the last thing I remember from that night. Slowly regaining my consciousness in the hospital bed with my family and friends around me. They began to fill me in on what happened and how I ended up there. We had a terrible accident and I had taken the worse end of the stick. My friend lost control of the car and began skidding across the road eventually flipping the car three times, I was apparently few out of the car while the car kept flipping and we both landed meters apart and the only thing that stopped it from landing on my was a light post. According to my friends I was laying on my face blood everywhere and pretty much looked dead. I woke up five days later in the hospital to find out that I had been in a coma, dislocated jaw, broken arm and dislocated shoulder as well as stitches everywhere. After weeks of therapy and rehab, I was finally able to go home. When I got to my room and was alone I broke down in tears it all hit me. What I had done, the pain I caused everyone my family and friends all around, not just form that night, for the years of degeneracy. I had to make a change I had to right the wrongs I had made for some many years. So I began reading and I came across a quote from Henry Miller that sums it all up a helped me realize how I needed to be grateful and right my wrongs. “Life has no other discipline to impose, if we would but realize it, than to accept life unquestioningly. Everything we shut our eyes to, every thing we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate or despise, serves to defeat us in the end. What seems nasty, painful, evil, can be a source of beauty, joy and strength, if faced with an open mind. Every moment is a golden one for him who has a vision to recognize it as such”. Ill never forget that night and the many painful nights after but I cant help but be grateful that night happened. It showed me what terrible path I was going down and how beautiful life is and that I have so much to learn and offer.

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