...Happiness: Gratitude FYSM Gratitude has the ability to make people happier. Throughout my research I have found numerous studies that have conducted experiments and done observations proving this to be true. There are many ways to define gratitude, and just as many ways to exemplify its connection to happiness. Smith Scott, the author of Psychology: Please Pass the Gratitude, said that the best explanation he has heard was by a man named Joseph Krutch who said, “Happiness is itself a kind of gratitude” (Smith, 2007). As mentioned in Time Magazine, “Of course, happiness is not a static state. Even the happiest of people — the cheeriest 10% -- feel blue at times. And even the bluest have their moments of joy” (Wallis, 2005). This being said, there must be a reason as to why people become happy and gratitude is in fact a part of that reason. When people think of gratitude they tend to relate it to everyday things, such as saying thank you so someone who held the door for you, writing a card for your friend’s birthday, or something else along those lines. However, a study done by Lung Hung Chen and Ying Hwa Kee demonstrates a method that is less thought of, if thought of at all by many. They studied gratitude and its correlation with the well-being of athletes. During the study, they used two separate groups which each had a different focus. Group 1 consisted of senior high school athletes and was designed to look at the relationship between dispositional gratitude and well-being...
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...in life. Everybody loves being successful. However, there are a number of factors, which should be put into consideration in order to be successful. These are fundamental things that got you where you are, but will not get you to your destiny. On this note, this paper will discuss at length, the important factors that should be taken into account, so as to be successful. The paper will start by introducing the relevance of success, and later delve on what factors will get you there, and sum up by giving an overall view on the topic at hand. Introduction The term success is synonymous with nearly everybody since its human nature to desire progress. However, for quite some time now, success has proved to be a challenging, yet so-easy task. For starters, success is all about achieving what you ever desired. Moreover, the feelings success can bring about, will make someone feel proud and contented. However, how can someone achieve this much sought after achievement in life? A lot of things have been said about how a person can be successful in life; nevertheless, while some advices have worked, others have failed terribly. Thus, for someone to get where he or she wants to be, then necessary advice might come in handy. Therefore, adhering to simple, yet so critical principles in life such as; being open to feedback, apologizing for mistakes done as well as expressing gratitude will help individuals to...
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...What got you here won't get you there Name Institution Date Abstract It is every person’s wish to progress or, move from one point to another in life. Everybody loves being successful in life, for one reason or another. Because of this, a lot of advices and testimonies have been brought forward about how to get there in life. However, there are a number of vital factors, which should be put into consideration in order to be successful. Technically, these are fundamental things that got you where you are, although if enough precaution is not taken, it will not get you to your destiny. On this note, this paper will discuss at length, the important factors that should be taken into account, in order to be successful. The paper will start by introducing the relevance of success, and later delve on what factors will get you there, and sum up by giving an overall view on the topic at hand. In addition, various life examples will be illustrated on how an individual can make it in life, and also what can make an individual not to get there. Introduction The term success is well-known with nearly everybody since its human nature to desire progress. However, for quite some time now, success has proved to be a challenging, yet so-easy task. For starters, success is all about achieving what you ever desired. Moreover, the feelings success can bring about, will make someone feel proud and contented. However, how can someone achieve this...
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...Self-Improvement Project: Gratitude Visits, Helping Others and Behavioral Activation Before I started my journey to become a changed and positively improved individual, I decided to grasp and face where exactly I stood on the happiness scale. While viewing the results I realized that I needed improvement and quick! Since I scored low on two questionnaires it was dire for me to focus on being generally more satisfied in life and any situation that I may come across. I sensed that my whole perspective on life was jumbled up and it required serious modification. Past events caused me to be more closed off and it stopped me from going on adventures with people I hold dear to my heart. There were many variables that facilitated my motivation for change as well as a few occurrences that impeded my reason for change. Variables that led to this decision for change was that my family spent less time with me, none of my friends wanted to associate with me outside of school. Also, I began to see that my reactions and emotions in every situation turned me into a gloomy individual. Time was the main factor, which hindered my need for improvement, I had to stay patient and stay focused on my goal...
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...In today’s society, many qualities in people can be viewed as being selfish. Barbara Ehrenreich does an exceptional job arguing about gratitude being a selfish act. She builds her argument by using transitional phrases, logical appeals, and imagery. Transitional phrases are powerful when authors want to add more information to an argument. One example is, “[Furthermore, it appears that].” This helps build the argument by showing the author has more information to add to her article. She captures the reader’s attention by using transitional phrases. In addition, “...Yet there is a need for more gratitude…” The author persuades the audience by showing she spent time researching the topic. The writer added transitional phrases to show the logic and ideas she has presented in her writing. This shows how important it is to use transitional phrases to strengthen an argument....
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...individuals. Among the greatest of gifts is to be made in God’s 3. Responsibility is the effort we put towards living the way Jesus shows human beings should live. Responsibility according to Gula is what human dignity is in addition to 4. Humility is one of the fundamental values together with gratitude that are important in living a good life. Humility is also an individual’s acceptance of their abilities and limitations. It is the middle ground between the extremes of self-effacement and pride 5. Gratitude is among the two primary values together with humility to living a good life. Gratitude is a virtue that also closely follows with humility in accepting that every gift individuals have received are meant to be shared. Gratitude is also remembering to tell others thank you (Gula 31). 6. Worth is what is rooted in God’s love and not on individuals. To love other individuals is how people show that they are worth. 7. Self-esteem is constructed by individual’s belief about God. What individuals believe about God is also related to their self-esteem. A social person is an individual that have realized the value of a good relationship with both God and other people. According to Gula, individuals should also they nurture a healthy relationship with other creatures as well. Humans are both sacred and social and, therefore, every one...
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...Characteristics of a Good Parent The characteristics needed to be a good parent are many, but here are several that can help form the foundation for good parenting. Respect - A good parent is respectful to their child, even when disciplining. Children first learn respectful behaviors from their parents and caregivers, so a child who is consistently treated respectfully by a parent is more likely to develop a healthy self-respect, and a respect for others, including their parent. Parents should keep in mind that it is possible to be respectful and firm at the same time. Empathy - A good parent knows how to listen, more than talk. Sometimes, all a child needs is a listening ear, a safe place to talk things out, and for the parent to put themselves in the child's shoes, rather than jump in and fix his problems for him. A parent who is willing to tune into their child's words, tone of voice, and body language, will have a better chance of hearing what their child is really saying. Empathic listening sets the stage for open communication and can go a long way in strengthening the parent-child relationship. Trust - A good parent takes advantage of opportunities to allow their child to make age-appropriate decisions, thereby, instilling a level of trust in the child's ability to do so. Entrusting a child to make certain choices is a great way to empower a child, and ultimately help a child learn how to become responsible. When parents try to control too many things...
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...throughout the stipulated internship period. With grateful heart I would like to remember the persons who have helped me during the course of my internship program. I wish to place on record my words of gratitude to Mr. William Adjovu (CEO of Liberty Group of Companies) for having offered me the opportunity to work with his Company and also being a good father for providing me with all my needs, may God richly bless you. I express my sentiment of gratitude to my guides Mr. Alex Amankwa-Winns (Operations Manager) and Miss Josephine Auch (Human Resource Manager) of Liberty DMI Microfinance Company Limited for their advice, training and corrections during my internship period, may they live long to continue their good advice. An endeavor over a period can be successful only with the advice and support of well-wishers. I take this opportunity to express my appreciation to all my friends and employees who in diverse ways gave me their support and love to complete the internship period especially Alex Dwamena, Audrey Aaikins and Perpetual Adator, I am most grateful to you for being there for me. My gratitude also goes to my parents who assisted me financially throughout my internship period. May God give them long life and prosperity to enjoy their investment on me. I express my sincere gratitude to Ghana Technology University College (GTUC), for initiating this program to aid its students to gain practical knowledge in the business world. Finally, to my good lecturers Mr. A. P. Lawer...
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...an invaluable teacher for him, Gately, as Staff. “So then at forty-six years of age I came here to learn to live by clichés” is what Day says to Charlotte Treat right after Randy Lenz asked what time it was at 0825. “To turn my will and life over to the care of clichés. One day at a time. Easy does it. First things first. Ask for help. Thy will not mine be done. It works if you work it. Grow or go. Keep coming back.” Poor old Charlotte Treat, needlepointing primly beside him on the old vinyl couch that just came from Goodwill, purses her lips. “You need to ask for some gratitude.” “Oh no but the point is that I’ve already been fortunate enough to receive gratitude.” Day crosses one leg over the other in a way that inclines his whole little soft body toward her. “For which, believe you me, I’m grateful. I cultivate gratitude. That’s part of the system of clichés I’m here to live by. An attitude of gratitude. A grateful drunk will never drink. I know the actual cliché is ‘A grateful heart will never drink,’ but since organs can’t properly be said to imbibe and I’m still afflicted with just enough self-will to decline to live by utter non sequiturs, as opposed to just good old clichés, I’m taking the doubtless hazardous liberty of light amendment. Albeit grateful amendment, of course.” Charlotte Treat looks over to Gately for some sort of help or Staff enforcement of dogma. The poor bitch is clueless. All of them are clueless, still. Gately reminds himself that he too is probably...
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...The Relationship Between Job Satisfaction and Employee Turnover Rate Introduction Adelphoi Village is a private, non- profit company that provide community based services to children and adolescents in the Pennsylvania, Delaware, Maryland and West Virginia area. Adelphoi Village provides programs and services that strive to guide each youth on a path that will provide meaning, purpose and value in his/her life. Founded in 1971, Adelphoi Village has expanded to serve over 800 youth in 60 different counties. Adelphoi Village conduct several different services which includes, group homes, foster/adoptive services, charter school, multisystemic therapy, education services, diagnostic, in-home services, specialized independent living, secure care, mental health programs and other services that overlap to form a complete continuum of care for children, youth, and families. One of the departments under Adelphoi Village’s umbrella is its Multisystemic Therapy (MST) program. The MST program provides intensive in- home family therapy to youth who are involved with Department of Juvenile Justice or Child Protective Services. The MST therapist strive to empower the parents with the skills and resources needed to become independent in addressing the difficulties that arise in raising adolescents, and to assist the youth in developing life-long coping skills. In the MST program families receive in home therapy 2 to 3 times a week for two hours each session. The therapist carries a...
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...faster than ever, we need to embrace what’s coming and adapt, rather than fear it, deny it or hide from it. 2. Want others to succeed vs. Secretly hope others fail When you’re in an organization with a group of people, in order to be successful, you all have to be successful. We need to want to see our co-workers succeed and grow. If you wish for their demise, why even work with them at all? 3. Exude joy vs. Exude anger In business and in life, it’s always better to be happy and exude that joy to others. It becomes contagious and encourages other to exude their joy as well. When people are happier they tend to be more focused and successful. If a person exudes anger, it puts everyone around them in a horrible, unmotivated mood and little success comes from it. 4. Accept responsibly for your failures vs. Blame others for your failures Where there are ups, there are most always downs. Being a leader and successful businessperson means always having to accept responsibility for your failures. Blaming others solves nothing; it just puts other people down and absolutely no good comes from it. 5. Talk about ideas vs. Talk about people What did we all learn in high school? Gossip gets you nowhere. Much of the time it’s false and most of the time it's negative. Instead of gossiping about people, successful people talk about ideas. Sharing ideas with others will only make them better. 6. Share data & info vs. Hoard data & info As we all learned in kindergarten...
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...behavioral dispositions that result in habitual acts of moral wrongness. o Virtue theory: based on the central theme of which is that morality involves producing excellent persons, who act well out of spontaneous goodness and serve as examples o inspire others. o Virtue-based concept of theology – focuses on the goal of life: living well and achieving excellence. - Main virtues: wisdom, temperance, courage and justice → cardinal virtues. - Another one is: faith, hope, and charity → theological virtues The nature of virtue ethics - It is not only important to do the right thing, but also to have the proper dispositions, motivations, and emotions in being good and doing right. - Not only about actions, but also about emotions, character and moral habit. It calls us to aspire to be an ideal person. Two types: o Moral virtues: honesty, benevolence, no malevolence, fairness, kindness, conscientiousness, and gratitude. o Nonmoral virtues: courage, optimism, rationality, self-control, patience, endurance, industry, music talent, and cleanliness, wit. The ideal type: Aristotle’s Nicomachean ethics - Nicomachean ethics: he identified the virtues as simply those characteristics that enable individuals to live well in communities. To achieve a state of well being (happiness or human flourishing), proper social institutions are necessary. - Humanity has an essence or function – Function of humans to use reason in pursuit of the good life. The virtues...
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...From the first moment I walked into this Positive Psychology class, I knew it would change something about me, for good. As a natural optimist, I was already expecting to have something good come out of this course that would affect my life, broaden my perspective, and somehow change something about my behavior. Little did I know that I would get so much more than just notes, lectures, and homework, I received some important tools for life that can help me in many situations. The five tools I incorporated into my life and do today are benefit finding, the nightly gratitude journal, and importance of flow in life, eudemonia, and the wonder drug. These important five tools that I picked up this semester result in an increase in happiness and so much more. Once of the first things that I remember really stuck out to me was, Professor Susan Thompson’s story of her life as a benefit finder and as a fault-finder. The difference was incredible and from that moment on I dedicated my life to transforming into a benefit-finder for all of life’s situations. I never considered myself as a fault-finder, but it always depended on the situation, now as a benefit-finder my life is open to more opportunities to learn, and move onto the future. For example, recently my little sister and I have been looking for a white Pomeranian breed puppy. Ever she was a little girl she wanted this puppy, and now as a fully employed part-time teen she has made it her job to find one. Together we have been looking...
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...Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-Being Question 1: What alternatives to cosmetic depression drugs do you think would be effective and how could universities apply them to depressed students? In Flourish, Martin Seligman describes two forms of medication: cosmetic drugs and curative drugs. He further explains that insurance companies can only reimburse brief treatments because a complete cure generally implies more time and cost. As a result, Seligman concludes, all psychopharmacopoeai drugs are cosmetic, palliative, and only temporary fixes. Thus, the use of positive psychology in the treatment of depressed patients is even more important. One tactic that could help in the betterment of college students is the use of a “Gratitude Visit.” In this exercise, an individual is encouraged to think of a single person who helped them in some way, but was never properly thanked. Next, the individual must write a letter of gratitude to this person, being thorough and specific in their examples of how this person influenced and affected the individual’s life. Finally, the individual must call this person and arrange for a meeting, face-to-face. At this meeting, they will read the letter, slowly and carefully, allowing a discussion of the content and their response to follow. What is the benefit of this practice? Seligman argues the results will lead the individual to happiness and less depression within a month. Among college students, this influence...
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...Carter, Christine. "Gratitude vs. Materialism | Greater Good." Greater Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life. 7 Nov. 2011. Web. 19 Feb. 2012. . Chapter 4 Article Write Up This article talks about how the holidays, specifically Christmas, is a time of year to be happy and joyful. The Holidays are becoming too much about materialism and how such busyness leads to stress anxiety sleep deprivation. She goes into much detail about how the cultural message around Christmas time is typically materialistic. People don’t understand that material things don’t bring us complete happiness and can lead to unhappiness. Materialistic people tend to upset with their lives, have low self esteem, find less meaning of life, and be less concerned about the welfare for others. They also don’t have the greatest family lives, have little enjoyment, and high chances of depression. These kind of people need to make changes in their lives to help better the emotions in the December holidays. People need to learn to be grateful and express our gratitude to others. It will make us happier in the end by not caring about daily hassles. It will also leave little room to think about negative things and focus most of our brain on positive things. If people follow this type of formality, then we will have happier holidays and live more positive lives. Research shows that grateful perception can have a positive effect of kid’s lives. When people get into the habit of being grateful and when we express concern...
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