...Axia College Material Appendix F Healthy Interpersonal Relationships Worksheet Use your textbook to answer the following questions. You are not required to respond in essay format. You may use short-answer responses, including lists, to answer these questions. 1. What are the characteristics of intimate relationships? What are behavioral interdependence, need fulfillment, emotional attachment, and emotional availability? Why is each important in relationship development? Mutual support is what makes relationships valued by those who don't like to be alone. An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship. It can be defined by these characteristics: enduring behavioral interdependence, repeated interactions. Behavioral interdependence refers to the mutual impact that people have on each other as their lives and daily activities intertwine. What one person does influences what the other person wants to do and can do. Behavioral interdependence may become stronger over time to the point that each person would feel a great void if the other were gone. Each of the characteristics of an intimate relationship is important because they are all needed for the relationship to be successful. 2. What problems might form barriers to intimacy? What actions can you take to reduce or remove these barriers? No one likes to be around an impatient person. It causes you to react in angry, foolish, and regrettable ways. The irony of anger toward...
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...Interpersonal Communication in a Marriage COM200: Interpersonal Communication Instructor: Stephanie May April 28th, 2014 Dear Michael and Lisa, Relationships are a lot of hard work, and they become harder when a pairs relationship blossoms into a marriage. It takes two strong people to put in the work to make the marriage become greater by the day. In order to succeed in a marriage the couple has to be willing to compromise, and work together to keep their lives in balance. It is not always easy to make decisions and think about another person before making a choice in your life. Balance trust, and understanding are things that are needed to create a happy and long lasting healthy relationship. Explain the principles and misconceptions in effective interpersonal communications. In interpersonal relationships is communications, between two or more people. “The capacity to form and develop healthy interpersonal relationships with others is fundamental for human development” (Paat, 2013). This communication allows individuals to share who they are with others. “No form of communication is simple. Because of the number of variables involved, even simple requests are extremely complex” (King, 2000). The principles of interpersonal communications are inescapable, irreversible, complicated, and contextual. There are verbal communication practices and non verbal communication practices. Sometimes we are unaware that we are communicating with others with even speaking...
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...Letter of Advice: A Long-lasting Loving Healthy Relationship Demetrice Sterling COM 200 Instructor Moak May 1, 2013 Hi Tim and Sara, My name is xxxxxxxxx I understand that you two are newly engaged, and were made aware that I was taking a course in Interpersonal Communication; additionally, as a couple you are seeking suggestions and advice regarding your relationship. I will share knowledge from the course material, and from my life experiences both good and bad. In this letter I will discuss strategies for empathic listening, recognizing the power of words, how nonverbal expressions affect relationships, and how to create a positive communication climate. Let me assure you that this letter will certainly serve as a footprint for ways to better your relationship. I am extremely honored to share some dynamics of interpersonal relationships with you, Tim and Sara. First I would like to qualify myself by stating that with the help of God, my husband and I celebrated 5 years of marriage on April 19, 2008; thus, I know a little bit about how to maintain a long-lasting loving healthy relationship. Furthermore, the day is your lucky day for the reason that I will share my knowledge with both of you today and set you on a path toward a long-lasting, loving, and healthy relationship. First I want to share a little bit of information about myself. I married my best friend sweetheart in 2008, and we are still together after 5 years. I am the mother of...
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...Mike. Today is your lucky day for the reason that I will share my knowledge with both of you and set you on a path toward a long-lasting, loving, and healthy relationship. I understand that you two are newly engaged, and were made aware that I was taking a course in Interpersonal Communication; additionally, as a couple you are seeking suggestions and advice regarding your relationship. I will share knowledge from the course material, and from my own life experiences both good and bad to try and assist you any way that I can. In this letter I will discuss strategies for empathic listening, recognizing the power of words, how nonverbal expressions affect relationships, and how to create a positive communication climate. Let me assure you that this letter will certainly serve as a blueprint for ways to better your relationship. I am extremely honored to share some dynamics of interpersonal relationships with you, John and Toula. First, I would like to qualify myself by stating that with the help of God, I have truly been blessed with the most awesome son and with a partner that will stand on my side no matter what; she’s the best. Thus, I know a little bit about how to maintain a long-lasting loving healthy relationship. I would like to share a little bit of information about myself with you. I have been in a relationship with the love of my life for eight years now and we’re still going strong. I’m the father of the most wonderful son that anyone could ask for, he’s name...
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...intellectually or psychologically, each person portrays distinct characteristics that are exclusive to them. Many psychodynamic theorists have theorized the origins and contributions that cultivate personality (Feist&Feist, 2009). Highlights of this paper will include contents of Sullivan’s interpersonal theory. Further analyzed will also be the theories of Alder, Jung, Klein, andHorney. Alder: Individual Personalities, and Interpersonal Relationships Alfred Alder created the theory of Individual Psychology as an attempt to explain personality development. His theory concluded that individuals are motived by the desire to be successful and superior to others. Alder believed that each individual personality was unique and indissoluble. Although Alder supported Freud’s beliefs of the unconscious mind, he did not support the idea that the unconscious mind has influence over one’s personality. Instead, Alder believed that the conscious mind is all that matters in the individual’s personality. The closest Alder related to the unconscious mind was with his beliefs of how understanding dreams would help with understanding how to handle future problems (Feist&Feist, 2009). Interpersonal relationships and social interactions took dominance in Alder’s theory of individual psychology. Alder believed...
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...Communication is said to be the basis of every interpersonal relationship. In fact effective communication is the key to a healthy and long lasting relationship. If individuals do not communicate with each other effectively, problems are bound to come. Communication plays a pivotal role in reducing misunderstandings and eventually strengthens the bond among individuals. A relationship loses its charm if individuals do not express and reciprocate their feelings through various modes of communication. A healthy interaction is essential for a healthy relationship. It is no always an individual need to talk to express his or her feelings. Feelings can be expressed through nonverbal modes of communication as well. Your body movements, gestures, facial expressions, hand movements communicate something or the other. Make sure you do not make faces at anyone. You should look happy and contented for the other person to enjoy your presence. Do not always look sad and irritated. Eye movements also have an important role to play in relationships. One can make out whether you are angry, unhappy or frustrated through your eyes only. Dear Shirley and Larry, my advice to you for a successful relationship is effective speaking using verbal communication skills. Effective verbal or spoken communication is dependent on a number of factors and cannot be fully isolated from other important interpersonal skills such as non-verbal communication, listening skills and clarification....
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...An interpersonal relationship is a strong, deep, or close association/acquaintance between two or more people that may range in duration from brief to enduring. This association may be based on inference, love, solidarity, regular business interactions, or some other type of social commitment. Interpersonal relationships are formed in the context of social, cultural and other influences. The context can vary from family or kinship relations, friendship, marriage, relations with associates, work, clubs, neighborhoods, and places of worship. They may be regulated by law, custom, or mutual agreement, and are the basis of social groups and society as a whole. Field of study The study of interpersonal relationships involves several branches of the social sciences, including such disciplines as sociology, psychology, anthropology, and social work. Interpersonal skills are extremely vital when trying to develop a relationship with another person. The scientific study of relationships evolved during the 1990s and came to be referred to as 'relationship science', which distinguishes itself from anecdotal evidence or pseudo-experts by basing conclusions on data and objective analysis. Interpersonal ties are also a subject in mathematical sociology. Importance of interpersonal relationships Human beings are innately social and are shaped by their experiences with others. There are multiple perspectives to understand this inherent motivation to interact with others. Need to belong ...
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...Relationship Education Introduction In the United States of America, the secondary curriculum for Relationship education (RE) has been in existence since mid-1800. Before then, it was known as the domestic economy. In the 20th century the name changed to home economics and in 1994 to family and consumer sciences. Findings on the number of teachers and student in the secondary RE education indicated that the number of girls enrolled rose to almost 50% around 1959 from the 17% before then. This paper draws both theoretical and empirical literature in an attempt to unmask how family and consumer science education has addressed healthy relationship among youths in middle and high schools. Further emphasis is on the literature gaps that exist regarding this topic. Addressing concerns and problems using RE Kerpelman et al. (151-171), asserts that family and consumer sciences education is an important field that focuses on families, work, and their interrelationships with the aim of improving lives. At high school and middle levels, family and consumer sciences education play a vital rolse in the lives of the youths. For instance, the youths are empowered to have abilities in identifying and creating alternative solutions to common everyday challenges. Under this case, the author further indicates that family consumer education enables the youths to manage the resources at their disposal thereby being able to cope with challenging situations. Additionally, family and consumer science...
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...Running Head: Marriage Advice Marriage Advice Carla Conley Interpersonal Communication (GSL1220C) Laticia Dezell June 17, 2012 Marriage Advice Carla Conley Interpersonal Communication (GSL1220C) Instructor Laticia Dezell June 17, 2012 Advice to Sally and Robert: Dear Sally and Robert: I would like to take the time to tell you how much I am glad to share five basic points involving interpersonal communication. Before I continue I would like to congratulate the both of you on your engagement. I hope your engagement will lead into a long healthy marriage along with communication. The most important part is interpersonal communication. Interpersonal communication is a social process which has three primary purposes. They are to meet personal needs, to learn about ourselves, other people and world, and to build and maintain relationships with others Sole, K. (2011). Remember you will need to use these to communicate with the world and all communication channels along with good behavior. Develop Strategies for Active, Critical, and Empathic Listening Sally and Robert one of the keys to having a long healthy relationship is being able to be an effective listener. Listening is one of the most important skills we can acquire. You want to be able to understand what each other is saying, respond appropriately to what your partner is saying, and provide helpful feedback. In addition, to practice active listening, try...
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...Running head: Interpersonal Relationships Final paper: Interpersonal Relationships Natalie Simmons COM 200 Interpersonal Communication Lakisha Bryant January 23, 2012 Dear Mr. & soon to be Mrs. Johnson: An interpersonal relationship is a fulfillment that every individual needs. In your relationship, you have already made the necessary steps to achieving a meaningful and long-term marriage by seeking advice. Every relationship is not perfect. There will be some barriers that come throughout your marriage, but with awareness and preparation, you can work through them and maintain a healthy relationship for many years. By taking an Interpersonal Relationship course, it has given me the necessary tools to become more aware of relationships and communication with others. Throughout this letter there will be several topics that will prove vital to the success of your future marriage. The principles of Interpersonal communication will help develop strategies for your life, improve empathetic listening, and the importance of managing interpersonal conflicts will serve as a guide to a long and healthy marriage. As a couple, you have made the choice to settle down with the man/woman of your dreams. You have decided that you are going to be married and by seeking advice, you are making the first step to maintaining the love and respect you are so passionate about in your relationship. The first step is: To know the principles and misconceptions...
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...Peter Atalia MGT II Instructor March 2016 Introduction Interpersonal behavior is the interaction between two or more persons. It is imperative to building and maintaining any type of relationship in our social world. However, when looking at interpersonal behavior in the workplace, things become a little more complicated. Interpersonal behavior affects the relationships between coworker and coworker, coworker and supervisor, and even worker and customer. Interpersonal relationships are important in career and job success. Positive relationships can lead to harmonious work achievement, overall happiness, and even success. Negative relationships can lead to poor work performance and can hinder problem solving and conflict resolution. Throughout this journey into interpersonal behavior, certain issues that can hinder the overall success or the organization will be dissected and different solutions to these issues will be proposed. The organization being used in this study is CB Richard Ellis Service Desk at Baylor. The unit consists of 10 employees. They come from different backgrounds and all have different goals. While a tight knit group, there are some interpersonal behaviors that hinder the organization as a whole. Throughout this project interpersonal behavior is substituted for words such as interpersonal skills and interpersonal relationships. Problem Statement Interpersonal skills are important attributes in maintaining a positive business...
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...Letter of Advice Vincent Johnson COM200: Interpersonal Communication Instructor: Donna Mills March 18, 2013 Introduction/Thesis: Dear Vincent & Deliliah, Marriage is such a wonderful thing, actually marriage is a God thing, and in order for a marriage to survive you must seek God. I was told you both heard about me taking an Interpersonal Communication course and requested my advice on how what I’ve learned could apply to your new marriage. God is the foundation that any marriage should be built upon but the next most important thing is communication. Without communication a marriage is most certainly headed for disaster. Communication is a key tool that must be worked at and a daily practice in your marriage (James 2:17 – Even so Faith if it hath not works is dead). If you both want a happy, long-lasting marriage then you must continuously work on your communication. I am very excited and enthused that you inquired me to give you some advice. I will do my best to pass along all the necessary tools I have retained from my interpersonal communication course, to better equip you for marriage. I am very positive that everything I have to share you both will find very enlightening towards your marriage. In my class the name of our text book is Making Connections: Understanding Interpersonal Communication (Sole, 2011), where in this book we learned that there are six basic principles to communicating. Just for fun I...
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... Employees must get along and build a healthy interpersonal relationship with their workmates. People are not programmed individual like machines that can work continuously at stretch. A single brain alone can’t take all the decisions alone. It is important to have trustworthy fellow workers around with whom one can share their insights with. There are ways in improving good camaraderie within the organization. One of which is good communication. Employees must communicate with each other effectively. In this manner, people in the organization are exercising good connection that creates healthy ambiance in their workplace. Interacting with your co-workers more often could also make stronger relationship and consider you as their trusted colleague. A sense of trust is important. Individuals must also share common goals and objectives. Brainstorming, reaching better ideas and planning out strategies together with your fellow workers could not only practice good relationship but could also benefit the organization as a whole. Individuals in an interpersonal relation should also develop respect and value each one’s views and opinion. Transparency also plays an important role. It is important for an individual to be honest and transparent. Interpersonal relationship has a direct effect on the organizational culture. People within the organization greatly affect its operation. If people do not perform well and does not have good relationship, the environment directly reflects on...
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...Mean Girls is a film that shows the relationships between Cady Heron, a new student, and the Plastics, a stereotypical group composed of Regina George and her side-kicks, Karen Smith and Gretchen Wieners. During the movie, Janis and Damien (who are friends of Cady) convince Cady to become Regina’s friend in order to destroy her reputation. Once Regina realizes Cady is faking everything, she frames her by giving the principal the Burn Book, a gossip scrapbook that the Plastics wrote about their classmates. The classic pop culture film revolving around four high school girl’s popularity is the perfect set up interpersonal conflicts. While Mean Girls portrays many aspects of interpersonal communication such as gossip and stereotypes, the main theme in the film is power. Regina George is the most beautiful and most popular girl at North Shore High School. She has control over everyone, including the boys, teachers, and her closest friends. However, the Plastics’ friendship suffers from an imbalance of power. Regina dominates their relationship, making ridiculous rules like wearing pink on Wednesdays and not being able to have their hair in a pony...
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...A Letter to Disclose Shanika Williams Comm: Interpersonal Communication Instructor: Jessica Guire 05-05-13 In relationships there are different way and views to go about having healthy. I will give you some good views and some ways that aren’t suitable in a relationship. In this letter you will find some good advice and how to self-disclose information to your spouse, without making yourself feeling vulnerable but attentive to each other in a relationship; with the intent you need to have a successful and uplifting experience. First things first, let me say congratulations on your marriage; I’m happy for the both of you and wish the best of luck to you in and the future you both will have together as husband and wife. There are some important things to making a marriage such successful, for one, working together a unity in the marriage. Be willing to compromise in your marriage for each other. However, one of the most important things in a successful marriage is be willing to communication. Although this can bring a wedge for people do to the fact that some individual’s in a marriage or relationship feel that they cause arguments, and making yourself vulnerable to the other person. It’s very important to communicate with each other honestly about everything that is important to you, rather than suppressing your issues. The daily routine should address your feelings and thoughts that may be on your mind. Making sure you get to know the other in all aspects and...
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