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Loving Yourself! Narcissism is a term that originated with Narcissus in Greek mythology who fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water. Currently it is used to describe a person characterized by egotism, vanity, pride, or selfishness; an erotic gratification derived from admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes. That is the definition of Narcissism. Sometimes I believe it to be a good thing and other times it can be the worst possible, depending on how you look at it. I mostly believe that you have to have the right amount of self-love. Some take it to far as to defining our generation as Generation Me. We want everythine for ourselves, we want evything to be our way or the highway. We want to be boss, and want people to deal with it. I think we could all be narcissists because im sure we all believe with the statement “If I ruled the world, it would be a better place.” I know I agree with that. Its shown in the last twenty five years, that narcissism in students have gone up a considerably thirty more percent than statistics showed in 1982. That eighty percent of the population, claim importance of some kind, from claiming to be the most important in the whole world, or to something little, like believing theyre the best at everything they do. Its like a person at the back of a line, fights and argues until they can get to the front of the line because they believe they deserve to be there. Its really becoming a fearful national problem because egos are inflating over time, and it’s predicted to just get worse as the generations get worse. In so me ways its good also because people want whats best for them, and that way they will get it. Narcissists are also bad relationship partners. I should know that one, I believe im dating one. Everythings usually all about him, he always wants me to go see him, and if he gets mad at something hes working on or gets mad at me, its like the end of the world. He ignores me for days when he gets mad, until he gets over it. He thinks hes the best at everything he does, and nobody can be better then him. If that’s not all definition of narcissism, I don’t know what is. All in all I don’t agree or disagree with people who are narcissisists because, its what they wanna do, and who they want to be. I just believe that everyone of us always has a little bit of narcissism in us, no matter how much we deny it. It will always be there. We love ourselves, its in our DNA!

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