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It's a term we are all familiar with: The ex that obsessively texts or calls you, and tries to continue being a part of your life, regardless of you repeatedly insisting they go away. We've all been on both sides whether we like to admit it or not. But here is the cold hard truth, these obsessive behaviors during a break up are NORMAL! So why are we still calling people we used to love crazy? Seriously, why? Stop it. You know you’ve all crept on your ex just to make sure you are doing better than they are, so don’t pretend like you are above it. But seriously, there are psychological facts that back up the “crazy” nature that comes with a breakup, and here are some of my reasons I don’t believe in the term crazy ex-girlfriend, considering pretty …show more content…
Seeing as this was the first person to really show any sort of serious interest in my since probably like, kindergarten, I had no idea how to handle it. He freaked me out, he was nice to me, and kind of did whatever made me happy, and I was in no way near used to that. I got so scared that I friend zoned him for quite a while. I had no idea how attached I would get to him when all was said and done. Love is funny in that way. We dated for 3 years after that and were inseparable; I’m slightly convinced we morphed into the same person there for a while. But things started to get rocky when college happened and we ended up breaking up. For almost 3 years I had no idea what it was like to be without him, and I liked the idea of being able to be my own person again. I had no idea how to do that other than to completely break off all ties, which didn't really end well for either of …show more content…
Psychology Today states that “Our brains appear to process relationship breakups similarly to physical pain. There may be an evolutionary reason for this. The function of pain is to alert the person to physical danger or harm so she can take protective action. In the animal kingdom, one's chances of avoiding predators are much higher as part of a group than alone, therefore social rejection may have been an actual threat to physical survival for our early ancestors. If this is the case, it might partially explain how difficult it is for many people to let go of the ex-partner and move on.” So, don’t ever feel ashamed for feeling like this, because it is your body’s natural response to a sudden change in your day to day life, similar to a loved one dying, or an unexpected lifestyle change that is hard to cope

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