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I grew up having everything my mom never had. My mother was born in Vietnam in 1973, a year before the Vietnam War ended. It was a place of destitution and poverty. Growing up in an impoverished family, my mom worked diligently to earn a living at an early age. A housekeeper for 23 years, my mother came home every day with a wounded back and bleeding hands. She was never home because she was always trying to earn money. While my mother was away, I had to learn how to help her and our family. I taught myself to study and to keep the house tidy so that she would never have to worry about my grades or coming home to yet another house to clean. The money she had earned from cleaning toilets and dirty bathrooms paid for the food on my table, so it was my responsibility to help her in return.
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It is my aspiration to speak for those who cannot and to be a role model to those in the same situation as my mother was. Going to school, my mom did not have a backpack or school supplies. Everything she had, including the clothes she wore was donated to her; she would carry a plastic grocery bag while her classmates had purses to hold their new books and pencils. My mom did not get the education she deserved; she worked more than attending school.
Going to school today in America I have everything. My mother taught me to work hard and to always do my best in my classes so that I could have an opportunity to go to the universities she could not afford. In school, whenever I wanted to give up, my mother was my prime motivation to persevere. I put great effort into learning so that when I grow older I can support my mom as she does for me. When I was younger, popularity was a priority. I wanted to buy all of the trendy clothes and toys at the time, despite the fact that it was a burden to my mother. She did not have enough money but I wanted to spend it all on myself to be "popular."
When I was nine, my mom went bankrupt and to me, that was a wake-up call to

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