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Relationship Between Father and Son

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Tyler McCurdy
ENGL 2610/ Spring 2015
3 February 2015
The Relationship between Father and Son What is a father? A father is a strong male role model. He is someone that teaches his son how to sort the right from the wrong. He is someone that teaches his son how to recognize the mistakes that he may make, and how to correct them. He is someone who teaches his son about the moral decisions of life. He is someone that his son will look up to; want approval from; and wants to mirror his every move. Now that we know what a father is; what exactly is a son? A son is not just the offspring of his father, but he can be the spitting image of him. He is someone that is loyal to his father. He is someone that honors his father’s opinions and will want to seek his approval. A son is someone that once the father has left, he will take over and fill the position that his father has left for him. So it is important that the son has someone strong to look up to since his has such big shoes to fill. In the plays Phaedra and Tartuffe, they show the relationships between a father and his son. They reveal a struggle of loyalty, honor, and the ability to keep a “perfect” relationship. This essay will compare and contrast the two plays and the relationships between a father and his son. In this paragraph, we will be comparing and contrasting the fathers of the two plays. Throughout Phaedra and Tartuffe, the fathers in the play massive roles in their families lives. In Phaedra, Theseus was all mighty King that made all the rules and everyone abided by them. Throughout the play, Theseus is “praised” and is given all the honor by his wife Phaedra and his son Hippolytus. Phaedra tries to be honorable to her husband, The King of Athens. As for his son, Theseus thinks highly of him. In Tartuffe Orgon, the father, is the head of his household, and everyone think highly of him and his

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