In attaining manhood, Nowlan suggests that individuals should not have to change their identity to fit a certain criteria. An occurrence that exhibits Stephan’s dilemma is the wind which symbolizes the inner turmoil that Stephan is enduring. Considering this, a youth’s development begins with their acceptance of their identity rather than the constant dealing of their inner turmoil towards not knowing on what figure they want to become. Men are regularly labeled for their brute strength and calloused nature however, the most physically capable can be considered the weakest. For instance, Leka was associated to being the weakest among the men and yet he constantly only let beauty enter into his life, ridding away the negativity instead of applying