You Can Read Anyone

It isn’t easy to read someone without knowing how to do it. There are many different techniques that are mentioned in David J. Lieberman’s You Can Read Anyone. The first two techniques mentioned are two simple and basic everyday habits we go through without even realizing it.
Being a mind reader and also naturally taking an interest in the unknown are both reactions that automatically kick in without putting any thought into it. We are always curious to learn more about things we haven’t heard or even people we haven’t met. Another technique that I was very familiar was how you can tell when someone is hiding a secret. The way this technique works out is almost like constructive criticism. By informing the person instead of accusing or asking them if they did something you will almost instantly be able to read if they are lying by their sudden reactions. You will find the answer you are looking for in their facial expressions and how quickly they can become defensive.
In the second chapter it explains how we unconsciously use “I” or “We”. If you go out with friends and someone is acting obnoxious and

uncontrollable, you obviously wouldn’t include yourself and say “we” were acting like that. You would separate yourself and your embarrassing friend when telling the story to someone else. First impressions are, in my opinion, the most important in every situation for any reason whether it be applying for a job or meeting your girlfriend’s dad for the first time. In a split second you can read just what kind of person is in front of you.
Although these techniques work, it is important you do them right. I have learned that I use many of these strategies on a daily basis or when I need to get the truth out of someone. I thought it was me being clever, but really it all was just common known