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Jelin Bellamy
Professor Lindquist
English 101-S08
12 Oct 2015
The Adventure of Romance It is a nice Saturday morning, and all across the world many single people are wondering how they are going to spend their Saturday night. They make a few phone calls to check with their friends or their lovers to see if they have anything planned for the night. If not they proceed to make plans with them for that night. With the night planned, they get dressed and begin their stroll to clubs and bars, some to parties to mingle, others out to a nice restaurant to meet their lovely date. However, no matter where the date takes place, there will be the same three types of first dates taking place: the drinking date, the activity date, and the stay-at-home date. The drinking date, usually the more common type of date, takes place at a club or a local bar. When most people go on a drinking date they usually do not want a relationship, but are rather looking for a companion for the night. In a drinking date the dater uses alcohol as an ice breaker or conversation starter. This type of date is a little more romantic than coffee, but less of a commitment than dinner. With the date halfway over the male dater begins to get a little nervous because he does not know how the night will end. So after the drinking date he walks or drives his date home and when at her house, continues to ask, “May I come in?” Some women may feel just a slight bit uncomfortable letting in her date, other allow them to come in finishing off their night with a little night cap. However, sometimes the drinking date does not go as planned and the dater ends up leaving the club or bar lonely and fairly drunk. The activity date, typically a little less common type of date than that of the drinking date, is a date for the ones who want to get to actually know the other person a little better. An activity date gets both people out of their element, and on the same team. The activity date will let the both of them know what it is like to actually hang out with someone, rather than just having a few drinks with them. Hanging out with someone on an activity date could mean going to the arcade, going to a movie, spending the day at a theme park, and even going to the zoo. While on this date it will get the daters a chance to focus on each other and the activity rather than asking the same old boring pre-dating questions. However, one of the daters could feel uncomfortable outside of their element and not feel like they are on the same page as the other. If that were to happen the activity date ends up not going well, then they are both stuck doing the activity with each other. The stay-at-home dates, by far the least common, are a wonderful, more comfortable way to spend time together, get to know each other or to get reacquainted while having a great time all at once. The stay-at-home date is a more common type of date for those who do not have the finances to go out all of the time. Even if they do have the cash to go out sometimes, activities that focus on the moment rather than the money are bound to bring the two lovers closer together. Some women do not like the stay-at-home dates because they feel as if the men are more boring, but most of all feel as if they are cheap. However, the women that do not mind staying at home for a date night, end up enjoying their night. A stay-at-home date could involve a home cooked meal or take-out, but a meal cooked at home is better because then the two can cook the meal together to create a greater bond. A movie, wine, and an enjoyable conversation can even spruce up the night. Stay-at-home dates are sought to be much more fun, romantic, and creative than the activity date and drinking date. First dates would not be as interesting or fun hearing about without these three types of dates. The drinking dates allows the daters to drink their favorite alcoholic beverages while carrying on a conversation, and maybe a night cap. The activity dates brings a little more fun into the date or into the couple’s relationship and to allow them to get the feeling of hanging out with each other. However, only the stay-at-home date seems to remain more fun and the most effective, and is what brings the two closer together and creates a bond that cannot be broken. By the time the morning after the date comes, enduring a tremendous hangover, lots of money spending, and sometimes humiliating pick-up lines, only the stay-at-home dates make the two want to see each other again or even go out on another date some other time.

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