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I Love the Black Woman

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I ADMIRE THE BLACK WOMAN
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I personally admire the strength of a Black Woman, without which historically we would be in a much worse condition as a people. Unfortunately, just as some Black Men have left their families behind, some have also left their people behind. If not for the Sister picking up that banner and unselfishly giving their all for the success of their families, where would we be today. I applaud the Black Woman's strength, determination and intelligence. Instead of criticizing our Sisters, who have the right (simply because they can make the intellectual choice, and may feel it is there personal nature to be dominant or submissive) to be submissive or dominant, we as Black Men should, instead support them.

I am not the least bit intimidated by a capable intelligent strong Sister. If anything it keeps me focused on the fact that I gotta come correct. It forces me to grow. It makes my dominance of her even more of an accomplishment. And it thrills me to see her gain happiness and thrive under my domination.

Since spirituality was touched on, I would like to address this matter from a spiritual perspective as well. As most can tell from my screen name/avatar, I express an Egyptian flava and it's rooted in the fact that I am spiritually connected to Haru (Horus, Heru, Hr). I recognize the Ancient Egyptians as Black People that are our ancestors. Within our story you find a multitude of Black Female Deities, very powerful Goddesses, that if you looked at them closely, it would help explain the enduring strength that our modern Goddesses (Black Women) possess and express. The same is the case for our Men. They just simply have to choose to exert that strength. So, for anyone that is unfamiliar with our deities, I suggest you look up Mother Neith, Auset (Isis) and HetHaru (Hathor), just to name a few.

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