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If Dead Women Could Talk
Even fifty years after the United Nations Declaration of Human Rights was established, violence against woman and girls is still a global problem (Women and Human Rights). Ireland’s Supreme Court refused a 14-year-old the right to travel to England to get an abortion after being raped be her father’s best friend. Only after she threatened suicide did they relent (Women and Human Rights). There are many ignorant people of both genders that do not understand the importance of feminism and gender equality. Feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men. Recently, in a class we were asked to raise our hand if we considered ourselves a feminist. I was the only one out of about 20 people that raised their hand. This only proves how misinformed the general population is about this issue. Feminists and activists for gender equality are not seen as they truly are. Gender equality is believing that men and women deserve the same respect, and that is something that has been stripped from women everywhere. I believe that women should be able to stand up for their beliefs freely, be equal to men, and that the general population should know what feminism is and how important it is.
The Consequence of Beliefs
Feminists receive mistreatment every day, all over the world for standing up for the rights of women. In October 2014, Utah State University received a letter stating that if they did not
cancel their event featuring feminist speaker Anita Sarkessian a “Montreal Massacre style attack will be carried out” (Feminist Speaker Receives Death Threats). The Canadian Blogger has received a number of death, rape and bombing threats. A female activist cannot spread the truth about an outstanding issue in today’s society without being threatened. How many woman are we going to let walk around in fear of being raped as a consequence of her beliefs?
“You Don’t Hate Feminism, You Just Don’t Understand It”
Women Against Feminism state that they “don’t need feminism,” but what is not understood is that feminism is trying to secure equal pay and ensuring that women all over the world can go to school without be attacked or kidnapped. One tumblr post stated, “I don’t need feminism because I believe that men and women are EQUAL, not that women should belittle men.” This really reveals how misinterpreted feminism is, and there is no question that Women Against Feminism is utterly and completely misguided in it’s understanding. Feminism gets a bad rap in general, and people perceive the movement as something negative. In April 2013 a poll was taken that found results saying that 16 percents of women and 23 percent of men identify themselves as feminists (Shire). The same poll found that 82 percent of people agree with the statement, “Men and women should be social, political, and economic equals” (Shire). That is the simplest, and most accurate definition of feminism there is, but the movement has come to be seen as anti-men, liberal, radical, and many other things that it is not. Women are most certainly not anti-men, which is the most misguided view of all. We love men so much that we want to be right up there on the totem pole with them.
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Drawing the Line
Every day women in the United States alone experience the mistreatment of women’s rights. “In the United States, a 51-year-old woman is stabbed to death by her former boyfriend as she waits inside a courthouse to extend a protective order. Two previous harassment charged against the man had been dropped” (Cooper). Women should be able to protect themselves without having to worry about being killed as a result. My question is: why were the two previous harassment charges dropped? And if that wasn’t a wake up call, then what extremes will women have to go through first? “In India, a 10-year old girl is rescued by a flight attendant who notices her crying. She had been sold by her father for $240 to the 60-year-old Saudi Arabian man sitting next to her” (Cooper). Where do we draw the line between listening to your parents and obeying them? In countries like Saudi Arabia, women and girls have no choice, but to obey or be killed. “In Kenya, 300 boys at a boarding school rape 71 girls in the girls’ dormitory. “The boys never meant any harm, they just wanted to rape,” the vice principle explains.” Rape is not a crime to these boys, it’s a game. Rape is not a girl or women saying, “I didn’t want to, but I did anyway.” It’s saying, “I didn’t want to, but HE did anyway.” No is a four letter to word to these people.
Choices
According to the United Nations, an estimated 5,000 girls are murdered in honor killings each year, but it was only when the video of Du’a Khalil Aswad’s murder was posted on the internet that the media took notice (Women’s Rights). The video shows what seem to be uninformed police officers standing on the edge of the crowd watching while members of her family kick her, throw rocks at her, and slam a large, concrete block down onto her head
(Women’s Rights). The video was taken in the Kurdish area of northern Iraq on a mobile phone which shows the murder along with many cheering onlookers. This is a result of countries being controlled by misogynists, and never being convicted for their actions. These women have no choice what happens to them. If they fight back, they are beat harder and murdered with even more brutality. This is only the start of the misogynistic violence that takes place all over the world, every day. When will women be able to make choices without the wrath of their husband, or other family members or even men they have never met?
Conclusion
While everything I have mentioned is more extreme than everyday sexism in the United States, it still can lead to violence against women. Being a female college student in a large college town, what I want is as simple as being able to walk home at night with headphones in. I constantly worry that the man walking across the street from me is going to attack me at any moment. Women and girls are told not to walk alone at night, have their hair in a ponytail or even wear hoodies because it’s easier for someone to grab you. When you hear this you wonder “who comes up with this stuff?” Everyday women and girls are attacked while having their hair in a ponytail, or while wearing a hoodie, or while walking alone at night. This is taken so lightly by people today, especially college students. We shouldn’t live in a world where women have these kinds of worries, but men don’t. Gender equality is a myth, and it’s the misogynists that plan to keep it that way. We shouldn’t live in a world where feminism is wrong, there shouldn’t be classrooms of women who do not consider themselves a feminist because they simply do no understand it. And we definitely shouldn’t live in a world where gender equality is not taken seriously because if all of these dead women could talk, I’m sure they could change anyone’s mind.
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Works Cited
Cooper, Mary H. "Women and Human Rights." CQ Researcher 30 Apr. 1999: 353-76. Web. 30 Jan. 2015.
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Shire, Emily “You don’t hate feminism. You just don’t understand it.” thedailybeast.com 24 Jul. 2014 Web. 30 Jan. 2015.
Strasser, Annie-Rose “Feminist Speaker Receives Death Threats.” thinkprogress.org 15 Oct. 2014 Web. 30 Jan. 2015.
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