...Why manners are important in today's society. I think manners are important in today's society because it's a personality trait that's good to have. It's practically a necessity. Great manners help you through a lot of life's obstacles for different reasons. Consideration is a reason why manners are important which goes along with your maturity level and how polite you can be on a daily basis. It shows you're a decent person, and that you understand and have respect for the people around you. Manners are very important when it comes to a good social life, ever since elementary school we were taught to use our manners and be polite to the people we tal k to everyday. People judge you all the time, it's just a way of life, and having great manners brings off a positive response and attitude toward other people, and people will unconsciously think of you as a polite and caring person. Another reason that manners exist for a good reasons is, coexistence. Without polite people around, and well manners, coexistence between humans would be quite difficult I think. Manners are just the guidelines to peaceful coexistence between people, and without it, I think it would be a different kind of society to be living in, kind of like animals. Without manners it would be kind of difficult to have a social life, get a job, have any sort of relationship with people etc. Most of the time we don't think about using our manners everyday, but because it has such a big impact on our...
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...Manners in Our Society I used to get annoyed at my father for judging the type of music and television that I liked and not allowing it at home when I was growing up. I have since gained a respect for what my parents were “judging”. Children do not pay attention to actual content and a lot of messages can be slipped into a catchy tune or a popular program. My parents were right these influences do have an effect upon how “kids these days are raising themselves”. Manners have declined due to disrespectful music lyrics, anti-authoritative television programming and parents not paying attention to what influences their children in media The lyrics in music have gotten more disrespectful as time has gone by. Parents need to pay attention to what their children are really hearing. How have we gone from Louie Armstrong’s, “It’s A Wonderful World” to Twisted Sister’s, “We’re Not Gonna Take It”? When I was growing up in the 1970’s my parents did not approve of music in our home with bad messages, morals and attitudes. Led Zeppelin’s “Stairway to Heaven” was considered demonic and was definitely not played in our home. When I had my own children I understood my parents point of view. I also found myself banning certain music from our atmosphere at home as well. I noticed how much more disrespectful it had gotten from the 1970’s to the 1990’s and 2000’s. Eminem and Dr, Dre for example are not role models I wanted my children idolizing at all. The role models...
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...Write a note on "Pygmalion as a comedy" of manners. Comedies of manners are plays which are "set in the world of the upper class, and ridicule the pretensions of those who consider themselves socially superior, deflating them with satire. With witty dialogue and cleverly constructed scenarios, comedies of manners comment on the standards and mores of society and explore the relationships of the sexes." The play Pygmalion is many things, and one of those is certainly a comedy of manners. Pygmalion is less of a farce than the earlier comedies of manners. While there are certainly miscommunications (especially at the beginning between Eliza and Higgins) they generally don't create changes to the plot. But in several other respects Pygmalion is a comedy of manners; most especially in its satire of both the upper and lower classes. Higgins, though a respected figure and "professor of phonetics" is an example of much of what is wrong, in Shaw's mind, with the upper class of Britain -- particularly the upper class intellectual male (a class to which Shaw, himself, belonged!) Higgins is a master of his subject, and, as he boasts, is not only able to place with minute accuracy London accents, but is able to train the most entrenched Cockney accents (Eliza's) into the tones of Mayfair. But with all his learning and accomplishments Higgins has left his humanity behind. He has to be forced (with only limited success, by Mrs. Pearce, Eliza, and Colonel Pickering) to understand that Eliza...
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...Al Lopez Lopez1 Mr. Berrett Public Speaking January 28th, 2016 “Are Manners Really That Important?” As a child growing up in the United States during the late 70’s and early 80’s “manners’” were a huge part of my upbringing. Not only were manners being taught to me at home, they were also being taught and reinforced at school. I never really thought of it as having a sensitive awareness to the feelings of others. I just figured at the time, it was just the way my family did things. Little did I know that the manners I was being taught would serve a purpose throughout my life. Today as I look around, whether I’m out in public, work or even within my own family, I must say there are very little signs of any basic manners being taught anymore. So my question is how important are manners in todays society? So what are manners, where did they come from and what purpose do they serve? Well let’s start with the very definition of the word manners. (manners) polite or well-bred social behavior, social conduct: According to John Daly founder and president of the key class. Today’s etiquette is said to have been started by the French. It started in the royal courts in the early 1600’s and 1700’s. King Louie the XIV had his gardener put up signs called “etiquettes” when he found that the aristocrats...
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...Lecturer’s Name : MISS V Title : INFORMAL BUSINESS ETIQUETTE Order : Topical Order General Purpose : To inform Specific Purpose : To inform my audience about informal business etiquette rules that matter today: send a thank you note, focus on the face not the screen and do not judge. Central Idea : Informal business etiquette is a valuable skill-set that will make you stand out from others, enhance your chances of success and help you land your dream job in the future. Introduction I. Much of today’s formal etiquette originated in the French royal court during the 1600-1700’s. The nobles who lived at royal court did not work, and so they developed elaborate social customs mostly to avoid becoming bored. II. Since the 1960’s, manners have become much more relaxed. Etiquette today is based on treating everyone with the same degree of kindness and consideration, and it consists mostly of common sense III. It is helpful to know some rules about how to behave in certain situations if only because this makes life more comfortable for you and makes you more self-confident in various social situations. So today I would like to share with you 3 rules that matter now. A. Send a thank you note B. Focus on the face not the screen C. Don’t judge (Transition: Let’s start with my first main point, which is sending a thank you note) Body I. Ask the audience how many of them would send a thank you note to appreciate what others do for them A. The audience who would send...
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...Manners I have attached scenarios to my topics to see how you will all react * Ask someone how much they earn. * Arrive 15 minutes late. * Yawn in public. * Say “I’m going for a piss”. * In the age of equal rights - is it still necessary for men to hold the door open for ladies and pay for their drinks? * Begin speaking before another person has stopped. (Or speak simultaneously.) * Cross your legs in front of your boss. * Comb your hair in public. * Pick your nose. * Scratch yourself. * Whisper to someone in front of other people. * Put your feet up on the table or a chair. * Take your shoes off when you enter a house. Eating and drinking * Wipe your plate clean with bread. * Peel an orange with your hands. * In a restaurant, eat an apple with a knife and fork. * Eat chicken with your hands in a restaurant. * Fill a wine-glass to the brim. * Put your elbows on the table during a meal. * Speak with your mouth full. * Put your hands below the table while you are seated at the table during a meal. * Take a bite out of your piece of bread (or a bread roll) and put it back on the table. * Use your hand to remove food from around your mouth. * Dunk biscuits or toast in coffee before eating it. Smoking * Smoking during a meal. * Smoking in a restaurant. * Smoking in someone’s house. * Smoking in the car. Slang Words that are not a part of standard vocabulary or language...
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...know why using manners are important in our everyday lives. Introduction: Manners are something people should use everyday to make a good impression on others and to feel good about ourselves. No matter where we are … at home, work, or with friends, practicing good manners is important in our society. Body: I. Manners are important to have A. They are a form of caring B. Manners allow society to communicate with fewer misunderstandings. II. Types of manners that we should use everyday A. Please, thank you, holding a door for someone B. Hanging up your cell phone when you are going through a check out line III. Don’t think a person needs manners? A. Just try to say please when you ask for something and see how different a person reacts to your kindness B. Practicing good manners not only can make your day better but someone else’s just by being courteous C. You can get through Life with Bad Manners but it’s a lot easier with good manners, According To famous Actress Lillian Gish Conclusion: In conclusion, manners are extremely important in society and our everyday lives. It shows people that you are caring and a polite person. Manners allow us to have few misunderstands and get along with people in society. Simple words people can use everyday will show they have manners. Examples of certain manners are the words please and thank you. Also holding the door for someone is a great example. People should practice using manners in their life...
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...The 3 key points you would take into account about the Maple company/business in order to define the “best possible candidate” are: 1. High-profile customers: Maple’s clients are high-income people that expect “a high level of professionalism from the staff”, and the course is expected to be in an “impeccable condition”. We believe that the first statement is more important for the job, as professional staff can be taught to have the course in an impeccable condition. Therefore, candidates have to be friendly to customers, good looking, have good manners and good attitude to learn. 2. Physical requirement and teamwork: Candidates have to be physically prepared for the job, and have to be able to start working at 5:30 am with a smile on their face, for which we need an active and fit person. Additionally, the job characteristics require team players. 3. Poor pay and seasonality: The job has a low pay in addition to being offered for only 8 months per year. Additionally, candidates must be happy with their positions in order to be nice to clients. This probably involves that the person you are looking for is someone who had an even worse job. The key aspect in choosing someone would be that the person does not have an attractive alternative job in terms of salary or job scope. Even if this candidate does not have optimal skills, we can train him and bring him to speed. Additionally, someone who, for example, is used to cleaning bathrooms, could be very happy working in a distinguished...
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...residents of cities, who are familiar with vice, tends to lower the moral tone of the students; and he adduces many facts in proof of his position. There is undoubtedly much truth in this view. Large colleges certainly have a large ratio of dissolute-or, put it less harshly, wild-students than smaller institutions. But this can be truthfully said of their vices: They are more gentlemanly and less vulgar than those practised in country colleges. City students may drink more, and occasionally gamble; but they never give the Professors a charivari, or attack the President with bad eggs, or conspire against the college authorities and get expelled in a body. They have more affection and respect for their Alma Mater-more esprit de corps-more urbane manners. Students however, are not a class suigeneris. They are what their instincts and surroundings make them. An educated gentlemen is apt to be a gentleman even though he be a student; and being a student doesn't prevent him from being a rowdy, if he was born such. Mobs of course lose the human instinct; and we need not look to college-life to find examples of men who act like ruffians when in a...
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...think about it, we've probably all been one of those "people" once or twice. We all know we're not supposed to act like rude people, but in certain situations, it's hard to remember not to. To avoid this image, we can simply try to be polite and use manners. When we were all young, our parents "trained" us to use the pleases and thankyous, to share, and to be courteous to the people around us. Now, all of those things are common sense to us. Although, there are many manners that we don't know, and some of them are pretty ridiculous! For instance, it is actually impolite to say "pardon" after blowing your nose in front of someone. The correct response is "sorry" or nothing at all. Have you ever written in red pen? It is considered disrespectful to the reader if you write in coloured pen other than blue, unless of course you are a teacher. If you're planning on having a conversation with someone any time soon, listen to these tips. You should never have your hands on your lap when you are talking to someone, and never tilt your head when listening. These gestures are said to show disinterest in the topic. Who would think that there was a proper posture for having a casual conversation with someone? After hearing all of those manners, you're probably wondering who came up with all this funny stuff? Well, Today no one is really sure where it all started, but we are guessing that in prehistoric times people discovered that acting pleasant around each other made life more enjoyable...
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...By: MALIKA SHAHID ~ The line between the public life and private life has been erased, due to the rapid decline of manners and courtesy. There is a certain crudeness and crassness that has suddenly become accepted behavior, even desirable. ~ Fannie Flagg, author of Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Café. The days of “Please, May I and thank you” is apparently diminishing. The much talked about “next generation” is either entangled in social networking sites or are much too busy dallying around. At this rate, manners and etiquettes may soon be wiped out from our society. The disappearing social grace in this day and age is truly a cause for concern. The biggest problem of today’s generation is freedom. Well, excess freedom to be precise. This freedom entered our society in a sudden flood of rights which people hadn’t expected before. In the name of these rights we are now willing to go to any extent to achieve what we want. Throughout this struggle we have forgotten the line between decency and downright rudeness. We have forgotten that our words, our actions hold the power to hurt someone’s sentiments. If we cannot show gratitude towards one another, then why should we go around offending people? Ever heard of karma? Whatever goes around comes around. If your demeanor exudes ill breeding then I’m afraid others would definitely treat in the same manner. In today’s culture there is a huge distinction between the social classes of the society. The rich and powerful...
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...内地城市挑戰已成現實-香港迪斯尼如何應對“兄弟之争” 2009年11月，迪斯尼落戶上海的消息一波三折，在香江引起不小震動。金融中心面臨挑戰、物流中心地位不穩……似乎在一夜之間，來自内地城市的競争，令香港“四面楚歌”。港人的擔憂折射出内地經濟的強大活力，也預示着香港不能戀棧過去的榮光。事實上，香港與内地城市的競争，從來就不是你死我活的較量，而是一場互利共赢的博弈，也是共同提升國際競争力的一場“兄弟之争”。 迪斯尼樂園引發滬港“暗戰” 2009年下半年以來，上海迪斯尼項目進展的情況頻頻見諸報端，香港各界的讨論也日漸升級。内地搶客源，香港怎麽辦？競争要來了，前景怎麽樣？上海要建迪斯尼，“蝴蝶效應”頓時顯示：遠在數百公裏之外的香港，陷入了嚴重的“集體焦慮”。2009年11月4日上海市政府宣布征用土地逾409公頃，是香港迪斯尼的兩倍；特區政府有關官員及學者都顧慮，東亞地區已經存在東京迪斯尼和香港迪斯尼兩座主題公園，在上海再建一座，是否會分流其它兩地客源，造成内部不良競争。香港一家媒體還就此采訪了一些正在香港遊玩的内地遊客，許多人表示上海迪斯尼開幕後，他們有可能會減少光顧香港迪斯尼樂園的次數。至2009年11月下旬國家發改委發布“上海迪斯尼樂園項目通過核準”消息，并指出項目占地116公頃。這個比香港迪斯尼還小10公頃的迪斯尼樂園，是亞洲第三個、世界第六個迪斯尼樂園，也是全球最“迷你”的迪斯尼樂園。這讓港人長出了一口氣。與此同時，香港的應對措施迅速展開，香港迪斯尼樂園日前舉行“小小世界過聖誕”亮燈儀式，其行政總裁金民豪表示，香港迪斯尼将展開大規模的擴建工程，計劃在5年内将樂園總面積增加23%，并添置30多項遊樂和娛樂設施，工程最快于年底前動工，可如期于2014年完成。 香港商務及經濟發展旅遊事務署副專員林錦平表示，面對上海興建迪斯尼樂園，香港不怕競争。香港會推陳出新，興建新景點，海洋公園及迪斯尼樂園也會擴建，香港還會繼續提供旅客入境便利措施。也有人認爲，香港和上海的兩處迪斯尼樂園度假區可以互補合作，因爲中國經濟發展迅速，是一個龐大而有潛力的市場，足以容納兩個迪斯尼樂園。 金融、物流挑戰陸續有來 香港作爲國際金融中心的地位也在接受挑戰。随着内地經濟連年高速增長，上海作爲中心城市的地位日益突出，香港擔心自己的地位被邊緣化，而上海憑借雄厚的金融實力和最吸引外資的大陸城市等“資質”，成爲新的金融中心隻是時間問題。 就在2009年4月29日，國務院審議通過了《關于推進上海加快發展現代服務業和先進制造業、建設國際金融中心和國際航運中心的意見》。其中明确指出，上海國際金融中心建設的總體目标是“到2020年，基本建成與我國經濟實力以及人民币國際地位相适應的國際金融中心。”香港的國際金融中心地位将接受檢驗。據筆者一位供職于美林銀行的朋友黃書耀認爲，從長遠來看，上海将成爲亞洲乃至世界金融中心，一些大的國際投資銀行早已在上海跑馬圈地、先行布點了。他表示，也許在幾年後，會到上海去發展。 物流中心的競争也趨白熱化。近年來，天津要做北方物流“盟主”，上海立志要做全球物流的中心樞紐，廣州聲稱要成爲亞太地區最大的物流中心，連成都、重慶、甯波等也紛紛擺開要做國際物流中心的陣勢。有學者認爲，上海物流業産值以年均22％的增幅迅猛發展，且上海地處華東，是長江沿岸的龍頭，上可輻射至華北乃至東北，下可輻射到華南，有香港不可比拟的輻射優勢，潛力無限。 上海物流業的崛起，使香港産生了緊迫感。因爲，從目前的形勢看，粵港澳要聯合起來，以珠江大三角洲之勢作爲世界物流中心，才能與上海抗衡。廣東...
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...世宗韩语 | 发音部分 [pic] KoreaXin.com에서 재미나는 한글 공부를 시작합시다! 第一课 元音 ㅏ ㅓ ㅗ ㅜ ㅣ a (h)o o(h) wu i 아이 小孩a i 아우 弟弟a wu 어이 怎么ho i 오이 黄瓜 oh i 우 蜂拥貌 拟声词 wu 이 牙齿 i 안녕 你好 aniyoh 안녕하세요 您好 anihasehyoh 안녕히 가세요 请走好 aneohnihasehyoh 第二课 辅音 ㅂ ㅍ ㅃ ㅁ b- p b\ m ㅂ 바 버 보 부 비 b- ba- bho- boh- bwu- bi- ㅍ 파 퍼 포 푸 피 p pa pho poh pwu pi ㅃ 빠 뻐 뽀 뿌 삐 b\ ba\ bho\ boh\ bwu\ bi\ ㅁ 마 머 모 무 미 m ma mho moh mwu mi 바보 傻瓜 ba bho 비 雨 bi 삐삐 寻呼机 bi bi 아빠 爸爸（娇气）a ba 아버지 爸爸 a boh ji 부친 父亲a pa 파 葱 pa 피 血 pi 무 萝卜 mu 모 苗 moh 안녕히 계세요 请留步 aniyohi kehsihyo 또 만나요. 再见 toh mannayoh 第三课 辅音 ㄷ ㅌ ㄸ ㄴ ㄹ d- t\ d\ n r/l ㄷ 다 더 도 두 디 d- da- t/dho- toh- dwu- ti- ㅌ 타 터 토 투 티 t\ ta tho toh twu ti ㄸ 따 떠 또 뚜 띠 di\ da dho doh dwu di ㄴ 나 너 노 누 니 n na nho noh nwu ni ㄹ 라 러 로 루 리 r/l r/la r/lho r/loh r/lwu r/li 나무 树 na mwu 다리 腿，桥 d/ta- r/li 또 又，再 doh 오리 鸭子 oh r/li 머리 头，头发 mho r/li 나비 蝴蝶 na bi 토마토 西红柿 toh ma toh 도토리 橡子 toh- toh r/li 따다 采，摘 da- da 라디오 广播 r/la ti- oh 뿌리 根 bwu\ r/li 누구세요? 谁呀？dubusehyoh 제예요. 是我 choyeyoh 어서 오세요. 快请进，欢迎光临 hosowusehyoh 第四课 元音 ㅡ ㅐ ㅔ ㅚ ㅟ eeh aeh ahy yve/e vi 배 梨，船，肚子 baeh 애나무 小树 aeh na mwu 누르다 压 duzhitah 모으다 集拢 moh eeh dah 베 麻布 bahy 모래 沙 moh deh 누에 蚕 duh eh 위 胃 wi 뒤 后 dwui 뇌 脑 nve 되다 成为 tuaidah 부르다 叫...
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...第一部分：戒 第六章 为何我们生于此？ 这次雨安居我不太有力，身体欠安，所以来山上呼吸点新鲜空气。人们来拜防，我也无法如往常般接待他们，因声音沙哑，气息奄奄。大家现在还能看见这身体坐在这里，也算是种福份，很快就会看不见了。气将尽，声将息，它们会如其他所有因缘和合的事物般，随著其他支撑的元素一起消逝，佛陀称此为「灭尽衰灭」(khaya vayam)。 根本没有任何人只有地、水、火、风 它们如何坏灭？想像一块冰，它原来只是水，将它冷冻后就变成冰，但不久就融化了。取一大块冰放在太阳下，可以看见它如何消解，身体也差不多是如此。它会逐渐瓦解，不久就只剩下一滩水，这就称为「灭尽衰灭」。自古以来，它一直如此，当我们出生时，就带著这坏灭的本质来到世间，无从回避，从一出生，老、病、死就和我们结伴而来。 所以，佛陀要说「灭尽衰灭」。现在，所有坐在讲堂里的人，无论比丘、沙弥或在家男女，无一例外，都是一堆会坏灭元素的组合。现在这堆东西就如冰块一样坚固，冰块从水开始，暂时变成冰，然后融化。你们能看见自己身体的这个败坏过程吗？看看这身体每天都在老化——头髪在变老，指甲在变老，每样东西都在变老。 你们不会一直都像这样，会吗？过去的你们要比现在小很多，现在长大与成熟了。从现在起，你们将随顺自然的方式，慢慢衰老。身体就如冰块一样衰坏，很快就消失了。 一切的身体都是由地、水、火、风四大元素所组成，匪聚后称之为「人」。我们受它迷惑，说它是男人或女人，为它命名而称某某先生、女士等，如此一来，更容易相互辨认。但事实上，其中没有任何「人」，只有地、水、火、风。当它们聚合成形时，我们称这结果为「人」，但切莫高兴得太早，若真的深入观察它，其中根本没有任何「人」。 身体坚硬的部分——肉、皮肤、骨头等，称为「地界」；身体液体的部分则是「水界」；身体温暖的机能是「火界」；在身体里流动的气体则是「风界」。 在巴蓬寺有具看来既非男也非女的身体，它是具骷髅，挂在大会堂中。看著它，你不会有男人或女人的感觉。人们彼此询问那是男人或女人，而所能做的只是茫然地面面相觑。它只足具骷髅，所有的皮、肉都消失了。 人们从不曾真正看过自己 人们对这些事都很无知。有些人来到巴蓬寺，走进大会堂，看见骷髅立刻夺门而出！他们不忍卒睹，害怕骷髅。我想这些人以前一定未看过自己，他们应该反省骷髅的珍贵价值。要到寺院来必须乘车或走路，若没有骨头，怎么办得到？他们能走路吗？但坐车来到巴蓬寺，走进大会堂，看见骷髅却夺门而出！他们从未看过这东西，其实他们生来就有一副，却从未看过它。 现在有机会看见，真的非常幸运。即使老人看见也会受到惊吓，这究竟是怎么一回事？这表示他们对自己完全陌生，不曾真的认识自己，也许回家后会失眠三、四天……不过，他们仍和一副骷髅睡在一起！无伦穿衣、吃饭或做任何事都在一起，但他们却害怕它。 人们如此疏于接触自己，真是可怜！他们总是向外看，看树、看人、看外界事物，说：「这个是大的」、「那个是小的」、「这是短的」、「那是长的」。他们如此急于看其他东西，但从不曾看过自己。老实说，人们真的很可怜，他们没有皈依处。 在受戒仪式中，戒子必须学习五项基本的禅修主题：头发、体毛、指甲、牙齿、皮肤。①有些学生和受过教育者在仪式中听到这部分时会暗自窃笑：「到底阿姜想教我们什么呢？竟然教导一生下就有的头发，他无须教这些，他们早就知道了。为何要教导我们早已知道的事呢？」 愚人就是如此，自以为早就看过头发了。我告诉他们，当我说「看头发」时，意思是如实地看见它，如实地看见体毛、指甲、牙齿与皮肤。 这才是我所谓的「看」——...
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...序：我所理解的生活 《我所理解的生活》作者：韩寒 做自己喜欢的事情，和自己喜欢的一切在一起。 多天前参加比赛，来了一个久未见面的朋友，他现在的工作是给明星做经纪。整个周末 他都在我们车队的帐篷里。周日分别，他对我说，其实你的自我开发做得并不好，形象管理 有问题，如果有职业经纪人帮你打理一下，必然远不是今天的模样。这样，回去给你一个总 结的邮件。 刚才他打来了电话说，你问题太多，邮件说不清楚。比如你在比赛那天一直“双反”，你 知道么？我当时就晕了，我只知道“双规”和“单反”，“双反”还真不知道。弄半天才明白，所 谓“双反”，原来是衣服穿反了，而且内 外和前后都反了。我说，我出门太急，真没注 意，也没人提醒我，难怪一整天都觉得脖子有点勒。 朋友说这个问题不大，你本来就粗心，容易被人取笑。更要命的是，你在车队帐篷的沙 发上乱睡觉。你睡觉的时候总共有十二个人来拍过你的睡姿，五个是挂记者证的，四个是车 队成员，三个是其他车手，其中有两个是故意拍丑态大头照的。我查了一下，其中五个人发 微博了。有一张照片很难看，影响形象，你身边也没人拦着人家拍照，这在我们这行里是绝 对不允许的。我说这我也没办法，熬夜看欧洲杯，的确睡眠不够，你叫我怎么能睡得玉树临 风？ 朋友继续教育我，面部表情是其次，关键是你团着身子睡，手还一直塞在自己的裆部， 这个猥琐的动作绝对是破坏形象的。照片如果上传，有些网友看见了容易反感。我说我又没 把手塞在那些网友的裆部，我碰了自己的鸟，关他们鸟事，反感就拉倒呗。朋友说，不是这 样的，你是一个公众人物，现在又是微博时代，谁都能随手拍，越夸张传播越快。你要确保 自己的每一张照片都不能影响你的形象，比如你的手放的位置不对，很容易被一下转发数千 条。我说，这我实在没办法，空调温度太低了，只要一冷，我就自动睡成捂裆派了，从小就 这样。总不能我睡觉的时候，雇几个保镖拦着不让拍照，这也太装逼了。 朋友还指出了一堆问题，比如随意跟人合影，人家递过来什么都签，这会留下隐患。我 说，不，人家如果递过来一百块人民币我就不签。朋友肯定道，不错，你还算有这个意识， 我们行业里有明星在递过来的钞票上签字，结果被网友骂死，破坏人民币肯定不好。我说不 是的，是因为我不想把自己的名字和老毛放在一起。 朋友痛心疾首道，你看，你这种话不能乱说，得罪的人太多。你在车队聊天也是这样， 什么都说，而且常说脏话。你要知道，如果现场有一个不怀好意的，把你说的那些用手机录 下来，放到网上，是很大的负面新闻。你知道当时帐篷里多少人？十八个！你都认识么？我 回答说，有几个不认识。朋友的听筒差点掉地上，有几个不认识你就那么说话？你考虑过后 果么？你一睡醒就和人合影，有一撮头发翘得跟天线宝宝似的，人家还开着闪光灯，照片效 果可想而知。你看你衣服的配色，是很乡土的，最关键是，再不拘小节，裤子拉链还是要拉 上的。总之，你太随便了，也没有一个专业点的经纪人帮你，你如果不严格地对自己的形象 进行系统的管理，就不能保持神秘感和名人气质。你如果对自己有一个好的定位，有合适的 人帮你运作和服务，调整一下你的社交圈子，你能赚得远比现在多得多。你告诉我，你打算 怎么经营自己？你是怎么想的？ 我说，整个周末我只在想一个问题，我和对手差了零点三秒，我该怎么追回来？我能惦 记着出门要穿衣服已经不错了，哪还顾得上搭配？ 挂了电话，夜深人静，回想朋友所言，有些也对。我在帐篷里口无遮拦，对所有人都没 有设防，要是真有人偷拍偷录或者微博直播，的确会惹麻烦。对陌生人提防与否取决于你的 ...
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