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My Daughter

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Michelle Corona
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Motherhood is one of greatest gifts from God. A baby can change your life completely in many ways. Becoming a mother is a thrilling, life-long commitment and a learning experience. I know it, because it happened to me. My daughter’s name is Brianna; she is the being that has influenced my life the most. Sine the moment I became pregnant I felt something change in me. I became a understandable, cautious, and more mature person. I was now aware that it wasn’t just me in this world. I realized that there was a being that depended on me.
June 26th 2006 a hot, sunny Monday morning this was the day where my life would change completely, and I would finally meet the most important person in my life. I was feeling sharp pains in my expanded belly. As the morning went on I was feeling, like he pains came more often. I showered to see if that would make them go away, but nothing changed. My mother drove me to the hospital as fast as she could; talking to me and making me feel calm, as the pains grew stronger. By the time I arrived at the hospital it was 8:00 A.M. and I could barely stand. The nurses signed me in and I was taken to a room where I was examined by a doctor that revealed I was 5 centimeters dilated. I was surprised; I had 5 more centimeters to go. How could this be possible? I believed my pains were bad I thought I was ready to push. Well I was wrong. But, after 9 hours (5:19 P.M.) I was in labor and in moments the nurse and the doctor were preparing the room to deliver Baby Brianna. This was a moment I knew I would never forget.
When I gave birth to her, it was very difficult for me. At that time my life was filled with many emotions and feelings. I had my sister and my mother that would help me with my baby. But this was not for long since I had to return back home where I belonged. Nights with this new crying baby were draining. This little person crying hysterical without a parental manual that I could read. I thought to myself what would I do? My boyfriend and I were unable to understand this tiny individual for months. I was very tired and depressed but when I saw her smile, my weariness would disappear immediately. I became more patient because I enjoyed the time that I spent with my offspring. I knew that it was important and that she needed me. I changed my mind about life and I was happy because she was present in my life. Everything I do or decide is based on her. I realized that I have to better myself and give her the finest life I can. My child has motivated me to further my education. It is so hard to study and be a good mother but she’s the reason I work hard everyday to get where I want to be in life. I understand that I have to be an educated mother and give her a good education too. Now I appreciate why my mother was always tough on my siblings, and me when it came to school she always wanted us to focus in college and acquire a degree, so we could improve our life. Today that I have a daughter of my own I want to be able to provide for her so she can have all she desires and deserves. I want to be the person she looks up to, her mentor and demonstrate her that she can do anything if she puts her mind to it.

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