...Demonizing your crush might help you get over it in a short-term way, but it's not a long-term solution. Here's the problem: thinking about how much you hate someone is still a way of obsessing over him or her, so you're functionally stuck at square one. * Don't make someone else responsible for your happiness. Sure, maybe your crush didn't respond to your affections like you had hoped. Maybe he or she even made it worse by teasing you or flirting incessantly, knowing full well how you felt. But whatever happened, the only person charged with making you happy is you. You're responsible for taking yourself out of a bad situation and moving forward, so don't hold your crush accountable for making you miserable. * Try to wish him or her all the best. If you truly care about someone, you want to see that person find happiness — even if it's not with you. Resist the urge to become angry or start making comparisons if your crush starts dating someone else. Try to cultivate a spirit of being happy when the people you like are happy. Demonizing ang iyong crush ay maaaring makatulong sa iyo na makakuha ng higit sa ito sa isang short-term na paraan, ngunit ito ay hindi isang pang-matagalang solusyon. Narito ang problema: iniisip tungkol sa kung magkano mo mapoot ang isang tao ay pa rin ng isang paraan ng obsessing sa paglipas ng kanya, kaya functionally ikaw ay suplado sa square isa. Huwag gumawa ng ibang tao na responsable para sa iyong kaligayahan...
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...**dO u knOw wAt's d wOrst thIng abOut LOve?? --wEL fOr me,it's wEn i LOve tOo mUcH anD lOsing my sAnity in d pROcesS. LOsinG mysELf a cOntROl,mAkes mE 4Get abOuT mysELf & tEnd tO giv my oL & anD hAv nOthing LEft fOr me.. tHe sLeepnEss niGhts anD pAin dAt gO witH LOve.. anD mOst of oL,it's wEn my pArtnEr mAkes a miStake bUt i've jUst gOt tO giv him anOther chAnce.. (**sO stuPid?**) ..anyWay,waT's d heck?! dAt's d eSsenCe of LOving,sO weTher it's gOnNa hUrt me oR nOt, atLeast i've LOved..dbA? eHem! wHat i Luv abOut d sO caLLed LOve? --is dAt it aLways finDs a wAy tO pAint a smiLe On my fAce.. a pOwerfUL fOrce dAt cAn rEaLLy cHanGe Lives.. d immeasUrabLe jOy dAt rEaches d vEry cOre of my bEing aNd d aSsUrance dAt i'L nVer be aLOne.. ..i knOw LOve shAres d sAme dEgrEes of jOy & pAin.. iT gets me CrAzy aNd mAkes me dO anytHing & eVerytHing fOr d oNe i LOve.. stiL LOve cAn bRing oUt d bEst in Me,aNd it mAy rUin me at d sAme tym, bUt i kNow it's oL fOr d gUd in d LOng rUn..:p ,,lOVe rEaLLy mAkes me fEeL gud.. i rEaLLy LOve d pUrpOse it bRings to my Lyf aNd hOw it transcEnds eVerytHing!! ,,basta i dOnt hATe anytHing abOut LOve nO mAtter hOw mAny tyms i cRied,huhu. at d end of it oL,, i knOw tHer's aLways dEstined fOr me, aNd dAt is whY i LOVE to...
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...My Definition of Love Love has so many definitions which it makes impossible to define precisely. As a matter of fact, it is one of the most difficult questions to answer. “I can’t stop thinking about you.” That’s one definition of love. The Bible says “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres.” (1st Corinthians 13:5-7). In order for me to give you my best definition of love, I would have to use the four types of love given by the ancient Greek philosophers. They are phileo, the love of friendship; storge, the love of family and relatives; eros, the love of affection and obsession; and agape, the unconditional love. Phileo, the love of friendship, is not sexual in nature. Phileo basically covers everything that has to do with a friendly affection of one person to another. It includes loyalty to friends, family, and their community. Phileo love truly describes friendship and the bonds that are strengthened by shared experiences. Most of us have at least someone that we call best friend. The tender affection we have for them is an example of phileo. Storge means family affection between family members. It is extremely important for all human beings, children and adults. It is natural affection...
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...that one day I would meet my prince charming. That one day he would take me away, love me, spoil me and grant every wish I had, and that we would live happily ever after. I grew up on fairy tales and M&B novels! It is everyone’s desire to have a life partner, a companion to share his/her life, dreams, joy and sorrow with. And I was no different in nurturing this desire. Every time I attended any wedding I used to wonder when it would be my turn; when would I become a bride. Most importantly: where the hell is he, my prince charming? Time passed by and still there was no prince charming in sight! I resigned myself to the bitter fact that I am doomed to spend the rest of my life alone, without love. Being physically disabled I didn’t want to be a burden on anyone, especially as a financial burden. I threw myself in my career, secretly holding on to the assumption that there is someone out there for everyone. Besides, Allah in the Holy Quran says: “Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who think.” [30:21] There is someone out there for me also. My prince charming will come. When? Then I met this falcon-eyed man with the most beautiful voice I had ever heard. With just one meeting I had slipped, stumbled and fallen head over heels in love with him! He was everything...
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..."One Day" Sometimes I lay Under the moon And thank God I'm breathing Then I pray Don't take me soon 'Cause I am here for a reason Sometimes in my tears I drown But I never let it get me down So when negativity surrounds I know some day it'll all turn around because... All my life I've been waiting for I've been praying for For the people to say That we don't wanna fight no more There will be no more wars And our children will play One day [6x] It's not about Win or lose 'Cause we all lose When they feed on the souls of the innocent Blood-drenched pavement Keep on moving though the waters stay raging In this maze you can lose your way (your way) It might drive you crazy but don't let it faze you, no way (no way) Sometimes in my tears I drown (I drown) But I never let it get me down (get me down) So when negativity surrounds (surrounds) I know some day it'll all turn around because... All my life I've been waiting for I've been praying for For the people to say That we don't wanna fight no more There will be no more wars And our children will play One day [6x] One day this all will change Treat people the same Stop with the violence Down with the hate One day we'll all be free And proud to be Under the same sun Singing songs of freedom like One day [2x] All my life I've been waiting for I've been praying for For the people to say That we don't wanna fight no more There will be no more wars And our children will...
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...Psychology of My Love Affairs Taking this course is probably the first time that I truly discover Psychology and I found it very applicable in our daily lives. As I go through the lectures, interestingly I found that many of the concepts and theories could be used to explain my behavior in a relationship that I had, which is currently over. I would like to share with you my discoveries and thoughts in this journal. The first thing that I found applicable to my behavior in this relationship is --- Attachment. I had been in a relationship with a boy for nearly 4 years, since I was 17. I would say our relationship was an intimate one and a very strong bond was developed. There were some sorts of attachment patterns in me, but the pattern changed over time. The attachment pattern of me in the beginning stage of the relationship was probably ‘Secure’. I felt secure, safe and comfortable when he was by my side, not physically but when we would whatsapp each other a lot, knowing what each other are doing. I treat ‘knowing what he was doing’ and ‘constantly whatsapping’ as a form of ‘secure base,’ with that secure base I feel comfortable and I would ‘explore’ like hanging out with friends, doing academic stuff etc. Sometimes, like when he played basketball with friends and had to lose contacts with me for a few hours, I would feel anxious, as it was like I lost track of him. I kept looking forward for him to had his game finished and could actually find me or whatsapp me. When...
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...was the day I married the love of my life. The day I met Amy, and every day I have spent with her since that day has been the greatest experience of my life so far. I woke up that morning with a ton of thoughts and emotions running through my head. I felt excited, nervous, happy, and anxious all at the same time. After I got up and had something to eat, I started to get ready when I found a gift from my fiancé in my bag. It came with a card that said; “Can’t wait until I see you today. Love Always Amy”. I unwrapped the gift, opened the box and found Superman cuff links. It was the perfect gift because I am a huge Superman collector and fan. I finished getting ready and started helping my fiancé’s son Damian get dressed. I remember thinking to myself “what a perfect day”. The sun was out, and there was not a cloud in the morning sky. The weather was not the main reason the day was perfect. The day was perfect because I was marrying my best friend, and becoming the stepfather of two incredible kids that I love as if they are my own children. I finished helping Damian get dressed, and then after taking some pictures we headed over to the church. Once we arrived at the church and took some more pictures, it was time to start the service. I stood alone in the front of the church, and remember it feeling like all one hundred and fifty guests were staring at me as I would wipe away nervous sweat from my forehead and taking deep breaths to try to calm my nerves. I am not the type...
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...One Night With Justin January 17, 2007 is a night I will remember forever. It is the night my dreams became a reality for one night and one night only. On this day at 7:30P.M., at the Save-Mart Center in Fresno, California, I saw the man of my dream, My Love, Justin Timberlake. What made this night even better was the fact that I was about 20 feet from the stage. I had floor seats to the most amazing concert ever. My roommate and I were in heaven. Justin came to Fresno on his FutureSex/LoveSounds tour. Joining him on tour was female singer Pink, who was the opening act, and producer and rapper Timbaland, who joined Justin on stage for a new numbers, including a monologue of his own. Pink opened up the show at the stroke of 7:30. She came out in a denim tank top and denim pleaded skirt. She got the party started. Her performance was energetic and amazing. She even performed an acrobatic routine in the air. At around 9:00P.M., the teasing began. The band members slowly made their way to the stage and they began to play a little interlude. The arena, already lively, began screaming their heads off, crying, shaking, jumping up and down, and anticipating the moment when the most amazing man in the world would reveal himself. The first song started up. It was the title track FutureSex/LoveSounds. Justin emerged from the center of the stage, dressed in a black suit, with a white guitar around his neck. Silk screens were surrounding the entire round stage. The stage...
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...Analysis the reason that I fall in love with my girlfriend from the psychology concept Recently, I got a lovely girlfriend. We feel so happy and sweet in this relationship. Some people believe that having close relationship because of sentimental fate. But I think this is not only fate. Now I am going to explore the reasons using the idea of interpersonal attraction. I think many different types of theories of interpersonal attraction can explain about close relationship in my life. The interpersonal relationship is the need of some affiliation to keep relationship with friend or family. We seek people with some similar situation for the relationship. Interpersonal attraction is that we like those who give us maximum rewards at minimum cost .The first factor of reward theory affecting interpersonal attraction is proximity. By definition, it means the degree to which people are geographically close to one another, plays a central role in determining who we like. (Robert S. Feldman, 1992, p.199). Now I will apply the factors to check the relationship between my girlfriend and me. We met in a Japanese restaurant, Watami in this summer holiday. We worked in the same restaurant and we are also part time waiters. Now we study in the same school. I guess that there is an opportunity for us to develop a close relationship. It is because we could meet each other easily and quickly. Also, it is easy for us to find the subject to chat. It can make our relationship closer. According...
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...Compare ‘Love that doth reign and live within my thought’ to ‘My Love is like to ice’ in terms of form, structure and language Both writers use the sonnet form to explore the feeling of unrequited love. They both use powerful imagery in order to express the complexity of love and other complex emotions. They both reach similar conclusions in regards to realising that their love isn’t returned by the object of their affection. However, Spenser seems to be more assured and accepting of this fact because he ends his sonnet with a perfect rhyme. On the contrary, Howard ends his poem with an incomplete rhyme, suggesting that he is less assured and that love is not perfect and harmonious. Both Howard in his poem “Love that doth reign and live within my thought”, and Spenser in “My love is like to ice” use the sonnet form in order to express their feelings of unrequited love and love as being powerful. This poetic form allows both poets to emphasise change in emotion throughout the poem and end with a concluding couplet, to present the poets views on unrequited love. Spencer emphasises the power of love straight from the outset in the title “Love that doth reign and live within my thought”. In addition, in “Love is like is presents a negative perception of love and suggests that love is an overpowering force that has the capability of taking over the speakers thoughts. by presenting a straight from the outset title “live within my thought” Both poets begin their sonnet by personifying...
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..."MYSCARY GIRL" by. SOJU All Rights reserved. Do not PLAGIARIZE! -PROLOGUE- "Wag mo daw tititigan ang mata niya ng five seconds..?" "Bakit naman?" "May curse daw na mapapasa sayo!" " Wala naman akong sore-eyes ah.."-Samara ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "Lahat ng kinakausap niya ay binabangungot ng pitong gabi..!" "Yay! Pano yan? Tinanong niya ako kung anong oras na?!" "Sinagot mo ba siya?!" "Hindi..Tumakbo ako! Nakakatakot siya eh..." "Thank God at di mo sinagot.....(sigh).." Masama na bang magtanong ng oras- Samara ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "Waaahhh!" "Oh bakit?!" "Nahawakan ni Samara yung bag ko!" "Ano? Sunugin mo bag mo! Baka may masamang sumpa yung binulong sa bag mo!" Aksidente lang naman na nahawakan ko yun- Samara --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Another poor girl sa Wellington Academy si SAMARA... Kinakatakutan siya because...
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...Ce se află înăuntrul Pământului ? Sub zonele de uscat şi apă care acoperă suprafaţa Pământului se găsesc straturi de rocă şi metal la temperaturi foarte ridicate. Cele mai adânci mine săpate vreodată nu ajung păna la limita inferioară a stratului de la suprafată, numit scoarţă. Sub scoarţă, stratul denumit manta se presupune că e format parţial din roci solide şi parţial din roci topite. În centrul Pământului exista un nucleu, cu o parte exterioară alcătuită din metal topit şi cu interiorul din metal solid, probabil, in majoritate, fier. • Cum respiră peştii ? Peştii sunt cele mai vechi vertebrate de pe Pământ. Ei au sânge rece si trăiesc numai in apă. Respiră oxigenul dizolvat in apa. Majoritatea peştilor respira prin intermediul branhiilor. Ei iau apă in gură şi o trec prin branhii, care sunt foarte vascularizate şi extrag oxigenul din apa ce le străbate. • Din ce sunt facute vieţuitoarele ? Tot ceea ce există în Univers este facut din atomi aranjaţi in diferite moduri. Dar, spre deosebire de pietre sau metale, vieţuitoarele sunt alcătuite din niste „caramizi” mai mari, numite „celule”. Unele fiinţe cuprind doar o celula, pe când altele conţin milioane. Fiecare celulă îndeplineste o anumită sarcină, însă doar toate celulele laolalta formează un organism. • De ce plutesc vapoarele ? Amparcaţiile plutesc, chir dacă sunt din oţel, deoarece densitatea lor globală este mai mica decăt cea a apei. Apa dezlocuită (dată la o parte) de corpul navei împinge...
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...d 40 Percent i n Slowpoke Expected return (%) Supertech b Slowpoke I I I I 11.50 15.44 25.86 Standard deviation (%) Figure 10.3 Set of Portfolios c o m p o s e d of Holdings in Supertech and Slowpoke (correlation between the t w o securities i s -0.1639) Expected return on portfolio (%) I I Slowpoke I Standard deviation of portfolio's return (%) Portfolio 1is composed of 90 percent Slowpoke and 10 percent Supertech (p = -0.1639). Portfolio Zis composed of 50 percent Slowpoke and 50 percent Supertech (p = -0.1639). Portfolio 3is composed of 10 percent Slowpoke and 90 percent Supertech (p = -0.1639). Portfolio l ' i s composed of 90 percent Slowpoke and 10 percent Supertech (p = 1). Point MY denotes the minimum variance portfolio. This is the portfolio with the lowest possible variance. By definition, the same portfolio must also have the lowest possible...
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...When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God." When you love you should believe that you are in his/her heart. For me these quotations teach us to have trust in our love once just like when giving trust in God. Trust is the very thing that everybody in this world desires, or at least should desire from one another. Who wants to have a friendship or relationship without trust? Nobody does. Without trust, there is no friendship, and without friendship, there is no love. I believe that trust is an even greater compliment than to be loved! I believe George Macdonald said it best when he stated "To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved." When I read this quote for the first time, I thought to myself, "Wow that is so true. How can you be loved if you are not trusted first?" It is a special thing to be trusted by someone. Having trust is very important. It’s a big part in a relationship. Being truthful is the key to establishing trust in any type of relationship. In a romantic type of relationship, jealousy can be a major cause for a lack of trust. Both parties must have trust. In any case of relationship, trust is built, earned, and maintained. For example: If you had an ex who cheated on you, you might start experiencing trust issues in relationships with others especially when you get close to one another. It may be difficult and you may end up not being able to trust the other person. When someone loses your trust...
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...Gorilla My Love • Themes Betrayal The main theme of "Gorilla, My Love," and the thread that ties the two sections of the story together, is the idea of betrayal. Specifically, Hazel comes to believe that adults, who should have children's best interests at heart, cannot in fact be trusted to tell the truth where children are concerned. In the middle section of the story, which comes first chronologically, Hazel has already learned that "Grownups figure they can treat you just anyhow. Which burns me up?" She demands her money back from the theater because "I get so tired grownups messin over kids just cause they little and can't take em to court." But she does not have in mind the adult members of her own family. They have taught her to be truthful and to hold people to their word. As Granddaddy Vale puts it, "if that's what I said, then that's it." In a world where adults routinely take advantage of children, being able to count on one's family (as gangsters can count on their partners) is important protection. But Hunca Bubba has not only changed his name to Jefferson Winston Vale but decided to marry a woman his own age, and Hazel's family seems to be offering only double-talk in his defense. He is not changing his name, but changing it back, they say. The promise to marry Hazel was "just teasin," not a real promise at all. This strikes Hazel as the ultimate betrayal, because now her beloved uncle and Granddaddy show themselves to be no better than the rest of them. Completely...
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