Describe an event in your life that has changed you in some way. Why was this moment important to you? How were you different after the event? This essay should be narrative and descriptive.
I never thought when my husband and I got married it would change our relationship with one another so drastically. Getting married has changed my relationship with my husband in many ways. When we were just dating it was easy to just up and leave when I felt like it or do more things for myself and not think about another person and how it would affect them. Being married has changed my perspective on many things. For one I can’t always put myself first without thinking about how it will affect him or how he feels about certain decisions that I make. I’m always thinking about how he would feel about this or how he would feel about me doing that. One of the biggest shifts in changing from dating to a married couple was that everything we did affected the both of us. When one of us are stressed it affects us both. When one of us have a victory it affected us both, it was a victory for us both. When my husband joined the military and we moved to Germany it affected us both tremendously. Having to start a new life together with just the two of us and our son. No close family around and having to adapt to a new country all of a sudden.
When you get married the fights that you have are different. When we were dating whenever an argument arose it was easy to just up and leave or say I’m done. Getting out was talways an easy option. Of course marriages can end but the process is long and complicated especially with children being involved. Marriage means sticking it out though. Knowing that there will be storms but learning how to fight fairly. Learning how to compromise when there is a disagreement and learning to pick and choose battles. I’ve learned that every action doesn’t