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Have you ever heard a young child explain something they just learned about? Probably in some point of you life you have. What you might have heard was something along the lines of a very elabrite and oddly humerous explanation. Yet, do you ever consider what this child truly understands about what he or she is explainning? Probably not, which is why when adults describe death to children they might get an idea of what it is. A childs' actual understanding of something might be completely different from what an adult had orignally explained to them. In my case I was about seven years old when I lost my Bubby. Technically she was supposed to be called my Aunt Clara, but everyone in my generation called her Bubby, so naturally it stuck. Bubby was the type of woman that would just walk in and light up the room. She had six children and from there they had her grandchildren to which she loved dearly. I can definitely say that she was the classic description of what a grandmother should be. Looking back now I have very few memories of her to which …show more content…
My grandma, Roslyn was living with us and she was in the room my called me into. She had me sit down and she calmly told my grandma that Aunt Clara was dead. My grandma just sat there for a moment and then errupted with anger and extreme sadness. When I left my grandma to cry I asked my mom what this scary word "death" meant. My mom described it to me as "it's not like sleeping, in the sense that they are not going to wake up from it." What did that even mean? Even now having to ask her I still don't quite know why should would descibe it that way. Nevertheless that was the description I had at age seven. So on the day of her death I remember thinking "okay if she isn't sleeping, where is she?" This then led to a whole bunch of questions I asked my mom. Why can't we go and see her? If she isn't going to wake up, what is she

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