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This assignment I have been asked to write about a significant event in my life. I am choosing to share the story of my son’s adoption. This is one of the most trying yet rewarding experiences I have endured.
My husband and I were both very content with our two children and felt that our family was complete. Both of us began to feel a strong pull of adoption at the same time. We were in the car listening to a radio program about adoption when we both looked at each other the same moment and asked “Have you ever thought about adoption? “ And thus began our joyous journey.
Our first step was just to figure out where to begin, we knew of no one that had adopted and everything was very new to us. This step was scary for us because choosing the right agency would depend upon if we adopt in the United States or …show more content…
Dust was afraid to live at our house. I am a neat freak as it is so this just sent me over the edge, I began dreaming of cleaning my house to wake up and it be destroyed. My stress level had hit an all-time high. That’s when an angel appeared in the form of our case worker. She put us right at ease, I found myself talking about myself and our family life as if I was talking about those things with a friend. As with most adoptions, we hit a bump in the road. Our home-study should have taken 6 weeks and instead took 3 months. There was a mistake on our home-study report and it was significant enough that it had to be completely re-done. This means fingerprinting again, more visits and a whole new report had to be typed. I felt as if the wind had been knocked out of me, why was this so hard? Why was this happening? Are we not supposed to do this? Despair had hit, I was so down that there were days I felt I couldn’t even take the next step. But through it all my husband kept positive and kept pushing me to keep going. Finally May 14, 2009 our home study was

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