In the film Steel Magnolias the Eatenton family is the primary family. Within the Eatenton family there is the Mother M’Lynn, the father Drum, the daughter Shelby, the two sons Jonathan, and Tommy. M’Lynn is the head of the household she is the primary care giver she ensures the family runs proficiently. She is authoritative in relation to Shelby, she acts as her protector and advices her what the doctors have told her and what she should and should not do. With M’Lynn taking over the role of Shelby’s surrogate healthcare provider this causes a strain and conflict in their relationship. Shelby held distain for her mother trying to control her actions, being intrusive, and telling her what is best for her. The father Drum is supportive he