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Matt Brown In the book “Now you see it” author, Cathy Davidson, clearly makes her point by identifying the problem, giving suggestions on how to fix the problem, and allowing the reader to see both sides of the argument. By using these three techniques, she is able to present her case and defend it extremely well. This is what you’d expect a critical analysis to say, right? But, I’m going to take you off the rails today. I’m going to show you the true nature behind high school. How, books like this have distorted the many views of adults everywhere. Yes, we’re still kids to an extent. But, I’ve met the most mature people in high school. High school is not a popularity contest, a survival study, or anything of that nature. High school is simply a group of kids growing into adults together. We don’t realize it yet, but we will look back on these years with a glowing sense of wonder. How did we come so far as people? Freshmen year, oh god the struggles. Everyone is afraid, and they should be. High school is extremely intimidating, and upperclassmen are of no means helpful. But, it’s honestly not their fault. When they were freshmen, they experienced the same thing. Why should they offer anything different? They want to put the underclassmen through the same things they went through. It’s like a rite of passage many college kids endure. But, after awhile, it’s just an everyday thing. No one even notices the changes, but it happens. Also, freshmen year was definitely the most judgmental year of high school. Everyone looked for a part of everybody else to judge them. Whether that is clothes, hair, hobbies, grades, etc. It was all rather negative, and probably the worst part of freshmen year. But, freshmen year flies by fast. And, next thing you know, you are on the long road to graduate high school. Sophomore year, definitely the most forgettable year of them all. But, by no means an easy year. At this point, you are thrust into the full experience of high school. Harder classes, new freshmen class, losing senior friends, etc. You are looked more highly upon than freshmen, but not by as much as you’d think. Upperclassmen are still scary, but not nearly as scary as before. You’ve made new friends, lost old ones, made new enemies, and met a lot of people. But, you honestly have just scratched the surface of social interaction in high school. The change has started up again; people are just beginning to become the man/woman they were born to be. It’s a beautiful thing, not at the time obviously. But, looking back at it, it was worth it. A year into high school you still don’t quite understand what to expect. But, next thing you know, you leave the world of an underclassmen, and enter the bright world of upperclassmen. Junior year, first year as an upperclassmen. You feel empowered, immortal, unstoppable, and like an overall badass. After two years in high school, you’ve earned this. You’ve earned the ability to walk around bossing around two under classes. Everyone did it before you, so why break tradition? This year, however, is the toughest of them all. The classes are full of pressure, your friends are reaching the final stages of changing into adults, and it’s an overall stressful environment. Algebra II, for example, is quite possibly the hardest class I’ve ever experienced. Junior year is fun due to being an upperclassman finally, but it’s also quite intimidating. You’re basically an adult now, college preparations begin, ACT time, etc. The ACT might be the worst part, your entire educational history based on one timed exam. The entire test is a big, stressful event. But, it is a fairly accurate example of a student’s knowledge. The test takes information you have learned and have not (Testing your guessing ability as well). It’s a test everyone shutters to think about. But it’s a key factor to your success in high school as well as college. Or is it? Is this test none other than another attempt from the government to class our kids? That’s for you to determine yourselves, as for me, I think the government just wants to make more money. But what do I know? Senior year… well, here you are. After 3 years, you’ve reached the peak of your teenage years. Your classes are still hard, but you’re used to it. You’re friends have fully changed, and you have your final list of friends. Notice, however, that the list of friends is considerably less compared to what it was 3 years ago. Friends are hard to come by now, trust me. You’re senior class is the closest group of people you will probably ever experience. You’ve all grown together through four years, it’s quite remarkable. After four years, everyone is nice to each other. You are all friendly to each other, compared to freshmen year that’s just crazy! Only a few outcasts judge people, (Cough, Tyler Arthur, Cough) everyone else just accepts people for who they are. Whether that’s a jock, nerd, gorgeous girl, ugly girl, fat, black, white, etc. We’re all one big family, and that’s the whole point of high school, right? I mean, high school is to prepare us to be successful in all future endeavors. One of those is bound to be apart of your own family. In conclusion, I loved high school. It taught me so much, educationally and through experience. I’m a better man due to high school. My social skills are ability to interact with strangers has been boosted to a level un-fathomable beforehand. I’ve met some of the greatest people in the world here. And honestly? I wouldn’t trade my relationships with these people for the world. I’ll miss every single one of you, even if we haven’t talked that much. I’ll end this bizarre paper with a quote that I live by everyday, “You can’t hide from life forever, eventually you have to live it.”

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