Slangdy Ramilus
November 8, 2012
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Essay 4 The 2000’s TV shows and movies are entertainment. They are easy to catch people attention whether it is a comedy, actions, or documentary. Yet, our society gets influence by them in a type of way. Some movies brought a life lesson, and others provide a negative image about something. All movies or shows have a type of message behind it, but people never spends their time to analyze or think about it. Regardless of the type of movies, they always impact or influence someone’s life, or they learn from it. Beyond the scene and acting, there is a scene that contains messages that might caught one attention and make them stare and think for a little while. Those types of movies sometime bring joy and sometimes they bring tears. In the movie “the diary of a mad black woman “by Tyler Perry gives a lot of good examples also a life lesson. In the movie “Diary of a mad black woman “by Tyler Perry tells a story of beautiful black woman. She is married to a wealthy lawyer. The man is abusive. She stress out so much that she had two miscarriages and all her hair fall. The worst thing is he drags her out their house on their anniversary like a trash. He keeps all the money to himself. This right here sends an important message to the viewers. This means that you might think you know somebody very well, in suddenly that person change toward you. One needs to think and analyze someone very close before he or she goes to the next level. That person needs to think who they are dealing with. They might it “I love you” but do not mean they mean it. People can start good and end up the opposite of what the expectations. In addition to that this section shows the stenotype they have in gender. The characteristic of a man, in our society is commanding, players, abusive and controlling. As for the woman, she is sensitive, lovely, housewife, and make sure that everything is perfect. The woman helps him manage his money yet he treated her she was nothing or does not mean anything to her. This part right here allows the viewers to think about whom they messing around with, who they deal with, what kind of person they are. It is not base on what they say, it base on your observation, you critic, your emotions tells you about them, it also base on the background and the type of family. You be able to his reaction to every situation. In other words, you need to study that person very close and spend times to think about it. Yes, there are people who pretend to be their personality but they cannot fake it forever. Their true self will come out eventually. You need to take note of every action and every move there is a probability to see the change, to knowledge that person true identity. As the movie goes on, she decides to go to one her family member with nothing she only had the clothes she had on and the big diamond wedding ring. No money, no nothing, not even a penny. Lucky for her, her family forgives her for the fact she abandons them just to please so call husband. The aunty or family friend welcomes her in her house. She went through a hard time especially she does not have any working experiences. But she does not just give up but she embraces her sorrow to works things out for her own good. That man destroys everything she has beside her kindness. She does not believe in love. As days pass, she works as a waitress in a restaurant. She end up to meet a man that is does not match to that stereotype. He is the opposite of her ex husband. That man shows her the true meaning of love. However, there is a connection between the scene and real life. Certain people made certain decisions that change their lives forever. Most of them wish to take it back so bad but they cannot. Yet certain do not knowledge, that the pain that person goes through. They have to strong to face the reality. They have strong self esteem because they are trying to take back their lives. People always “what goes around come around” that exactly what had happen to the ex husband. He gets shot by his client. And he was paralyze for a while People needs to know that everything in life have consequences whether it is good or bad. Also people need to know that everything happen for a reason. That situation show him and prove him the woman has his back and to support him in anything. Regardless the woman is there to support him. He still disrespects her. Everybody has a breaking point. She couldn’t take it no more so she takes revenge. So she decided to treat him the same way he was treated her until he get the picture. As the society describe man does not have a sensitive side. At the end, the woman changes his life. She makes him a better person. The woman that he chooses over takes all his money and their children. He did not want his ex wife to touch that money. She had recovered herself. And she has proved the guy that she is strong enough to stand up for herself. This movie shows and allows the viewers to see beyond the action, and setting. It also describes the discrimination between men and women. It explains that happen to many people. It not might happen to you but it can happen to one of your family member. The last message it send is to be extra care to which we date.

Work cited Diary of Mad Black Woman, Dir Darren Grant Tyler Perry, Kimberly Elise, Steve Harris. Paramount 2005