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In Katy Butler’s essay, “What Broke my Father’s Heart,” she addresses the agonizing last few years of not only her own Father, but that of her mother. Though with the advancement of medical research and in consequence the prolonging of human life, she expresses her anger and regret towards helping prolong her own father’s life at the expense of him becoming a mere shadow of his former self. Butler also expresses her disdain for the health system in the United States and how it primarily only functions to profit from patients, rather than doing what it is best for them. She also witnessed the emotional toll the burden of her father’s health placed on her mother and the resulting consequences of her having to leave her tranquil life and thrown …show more content…
However, instead of worrying about the patient himself, “American health care is radically American: individualistic, scientifically ambitious, market intoxicated of health, suspicious of government and profit-driven” (DeSpelder 178). This is evident in the situation regarding her father’s pacemaker. Instead of worrying about the long-term effects the pacemaker would have had regarding his health, they only thought of the short-term profits. Butler expresses her disdain for this by stating that, “Medicare rewards doctors far better for doing procedures than for assessing whether they should be done at all” (Butler 5). Instead of expressively worrying about how a patient might react to certain medications or procedures, Doctor’s working in a Medicare funded facility more often worry about their own individualistic profits rather than the actual well-being of a patient. I a firm believe that we should always speak for what’s best for a patient and I believe Fales states it perfectly by saying, “it’s easier to understand someone if they just tell it like it is from their heart and their soul” (Butler

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