...The bond between parents and children is one of love and affection; yet we come across people who hate their parents and also people who feel that their parents have let them down. Why it this the case ? Are these people unnatural or are they justified ? Perhaps in some cases they are justified. Most men and women get married and have children but not all of them are worthy of being parents. Parenthood, like other responsibilities, needs devotion, dedication and a lot of preparation. Prospective parents must recognize their responsibilities and realize what parenthood involves. The first essential of good parenthood is the acceptance of the role. A man who marries when he is young may resent his first child for it would be a rival for the affection of the lady of the house. Similarly. a woman may resent her first child because it suddenly puts her in a different class of women. Couples who become parents can no longer call their time their own. Often the newcomer may necessitate changes in the household routine, giving up of a job on the part of the mother and various other sacrifices. The world of affection which should surround a child should precede its birth. It is here that good parenthood begins. Fondness, however, is at no stage a synonym of pampering and spoiling children. Parents have the responsibility of cultivating those qualities in their children which may help them to face life, make them brave and likeable human beings, impart to them a sense of integrity and...
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...TEMPAHAN BISKUT & KUIH RAYA 2014 Assalamualaikum, Tempahan kuih raya untuk tahun 2014 telah pun di buka. Kepada pelanggan yang ingin membuat tempahan secara borong diminta membuat tempahan seawal yang mungkin untuk memudahkan pihak kami membuat perancangan awal bagi memenuhi kesemua permintaan. Tempahan di tutup pada minggu ketiga Ramadan. Senarai biskut & kuih raya yang masih boleh di pesan adalah seperti dibawah: RS2 Semperit - RM28 RS4 London almond - RM28 RS8 Rainbow dahlia - RM28 F9 Strawberry chocolate layer cookies - RM28 FB3 Bangkit oreo - RM28 FB7 ***** German butter cookies (coffee) - RM28 FB10 ***** German butter cookies - RM28 B23 ***** Biskut mazola - RM30 B24 ***** White suji - RM30 B44 Bangkit 2 in 1 - RM30 B46 Chunky almond chocolate cookies - RM30 B58 ***** Semperit cheese - RM30 B53 ***** Sepit peanut butter - RM30 EX1 ***** Beryl milk choc almond - RM35 EX3 ***** Florentine mix almond - RM35 EX4 ***** Peanut candy - RM35 PR3 ***** Premium chocolate delight - RM35 PR23 ***** sugee - RM35 PR33 ***** Choco red velvet - RM35 PR33 ***** Nuts red velvet – RM35 ***** PILIHAN RAMAI Anggaran jumlah bilangan kuih raya dalam satu balang adalah 40 ke 50 biji atau 50 ke 60 biji. Minimum pembelian RM50 ke atas dan caj penghantaran bergantung kepada kawasan. Untuk pembelian kuih raya berjumlah RM300 ke atas akan di berikan diskaun sebanyak 10%. Selain daripada...
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...now, nobody knew what happens to them. Few month back then, the mainstream media reported and follows the Tweet of Maira Nari, 17 years old daughter of Andrew Nari, one of the crew for that unlucky flight. “Come home fast dad, it’s the only thing I want” “Daddy, Liverpool is winning the game. Come home, so you can watch the game! You never miss watching the game. It’s your very first time” Judging from all those tweets, we can see that her daughter’s strength, emotion and loves to him, as a credits and the results him being a good and example parent, where his lost felt deep by his daughter. This is what my speech will elaborates about, what does it takes to be a good parents. Yes, you can find hundreds of websites, thousands of books, and no shortage of magazines about parenting, but if you ask few people about the most important parenting quality, you will likely end up with just as many answers. Some would say love, attention, money, wealth, food. Some would say spending quality time with them while others would say discipline. But what is it actually? Which and how these factors would make parents, good? The truth is, it is hard to say because a parent is not intrinsically bad or good; they are just a parent who makes good or bad choices. Parenting actually is an ongoing process that has some trial and error, and requires you to accept and learn from your limitations. It is exactly like baking a cake. You put everything that you thought would make your cake tasty,...
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...Good morning ladies and gentleman. It gives me a great pleasure to welcome all of you to this open day of Brainy Montessori in this morning. I’m ----------------- the founder of Brainy Montessori. I’m here to talk about “What does it take to be a good parent?” Before we go further, let me explain a bit what Brainy Montessori is. Brainy Montessori has been designed to teach children count, writing and reading and so on. The Montessori method of education is developed by Dr. Maria Montessori is a child centered education approach based on observation from birth to adult. It is being tested 100 years ago. According to Merriam-Webster dictionary, parent defines as a person who is a father or mother or a person who has a child. Parent also defines as to be or act as a parent to someone. Another definition is any organism that produces or generate another like parent cell or parent DNA. While, according oxford dictionary parent define as an animal or plant which new ones are derived. But, for me parent defines as a person who love their children unconditionally, always be by the children’s sides, understand their children. Someone who stands for them when they need someone, someone who will help them to solve problems. Someone who will teach or show them right or wrong, correct their mistakes. Back to the topic, raising kids is one of the toughest and most fulfilling jobs in the world. Most of the parents want to do the best in raising and teaching their children. Being a...
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...Questions 1. What are the differences between being a biological parent, an adoptive parent, and a foster parent? The differences between a biological parent, a adoptive parent, and a foster parent is that a biological actually brings the child to this earth, they make and take care of their child. An adoptive parent adopts a child and takes on the same responsibilities as a biological parent only difference is that the child isn’t their real child, but they must treat and care for the child as if they were. A foster parent are assigned a child by the state for a limited time until their biological parents or other relatives claim their child, if the foster parents adopt the child, is paced in another foster family or to another adoptive facility. 2. What financial needs are parents obligated to provide and which are optional? Parents must provide their child with the initials such as nutritious food, shelter, clothing, and healthcare. These things are a MUST have available for children. 3. What other needs might a child have that a parent is expected to provide? Other needs Children might have is safety and security, emotional needs, and (even if they may not realize it at 1st) discipline. 4. What are the qualities of a nurturing parent? Nurturing parents must 1st be at a good place in their own individual self before they can care and provide support for their child. They must be confident with themselves so they can develop self-esteem in the child. Parents must also...
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...A very good morning to our teachers, parents, guardians and students. It gives me great pleasure to join you here today for our Open Day in this year. On this glorious morning, I, XXX the founder of Brainy Montessori , I am going to give a talk on “What Does It Take To Be A Good Parent?”. In my speech, I am going to share with you some characteristics of a good parent. According to Oxford Dictionary, parent define as a person who is a father or mother or a person who has a child. Parent also define as to be or act as a mother or father to someone. Another definition of parent is an animal or plant that produces a young animal or plant and also define as something out of which another thing has developed. Good in other hand define in Oxford Dictionary as having the required qualities, of a high standard, possessing or displaying moral virtue, and also that which is morally right. Therefore for me, good parent is someone refer to father or mother who loves their children unconditionally, communicates openly with their children, is involved in their children lives as much as they can be, someone who is there for them when they need someone, some one who teaches good morals and values, someone who shows them right from wrong, strict but not too strict. Parenting is a lifelong journey. As parents, we have an important responsibility. Every parent wants to be a good parent and role model for our children. But to be a good parent is not easy. It is a journey of trial and error...
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...Characteristics of a Good Parent The characteristics needed to be a good parent are many, but here are several that can help form the foundation for good parenting. Respect - A good parent is respectful to their child, even when disciplining. Children first learn respectful behaviors from their parents and caregivers, so a child who is consistently treated respectfully by a parent is more likely to develop a healthy self-respect, and a respect for others, including their parent. Parents should keep in mind that it is possible to be respectful and firm at the same time. Empathy - A good parent knows how to listen, more than talk. Sometimes, all a child needs is a listening ear, a safe place to talk things out, and for the parent to put themselves in the child's shoes, rather than jump in and fix his problems for him. A parent who is willing to tune into their child's words, tone of voice, and body language, will have a better chance of hearing what their child is really saying. Empathic listening sets the stage for open communication and can go a long way in strengthening the parent-child relationship. Trust - A good parent takes advantage of opportunities to allow their child to make age-appropriate decisions, thereby, instilling a level of trust in the child's ability to do so. Entrusting a child to make certain choices is a great way to empower a child, and ultimately help a child learn how to become responsible. When parents try to control too many things...
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...Anna Quindlen said,“Children should have enough freedom to be themselves - once they've learned the rules.” Children should be free to be who they are but once you bend those rules you have to know how to make them follow your rules. In this essay, I will talk about the tip on how to be a good parent, and what not to do as a parent. Being a good parent has a lot of rules and tips,/ if you let your kid disobey the rules and walk all over you what does that make you in your place. You have to set boundaries and limits to what's okay and what’s not okay. One thing that you should definitely do with your child is, make warm memories (Gills 1). Also, mothers need to take charge and stay committed to what you say to your children (Gills...
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...Defining a Parent Growing up in a single-parent home for all of my life, I’ve learned a lot about parenting. Being a parent is a role that is often underestimated. Parents seldom realize the impact that they have on their kids, and how they can impact the kids’ lives for the better or worse. The world we live in today defines a parent by the house they live in and the car they drive. Being a good parent these days is based off of qualities that are unimportant and unrelated to actually being a good parent. Contrary to popular belief, this is not the way it should be done. Regardless of money and power, a parent is defined by their love, their ability to forgive, and their supportiveness. Parents love for their kids can make a huge difference in their lives. If this love is only temporary, or when their kids do something right or well, that can emotionally hurt the kids worse than many may realize. Conditional love will act as the root of all evil in a relationship between a parent and their kid. It shows the kid that they will be loved based off of what they do and how well they do it, not because of who they are. Unconditional love however, can make all the difference in a relationship. Kids who are loved unconditionally learn that they also should love unconditionally, and that it is the greatest kind of love. They learn that they are loved because of who they are and not what they’ve done. As Margaret Paul explained, “Our children become a mirror of our own behavior, discounting...
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...why some nice parents don’t have good children, or some people are good sons or daughters even though their parents are bad. A good son or daughter should have certain qualities. Being hard working, sympathetic, and respectful of parents are the most important qualities of a good son or daughter. First of all, a good son or daughter should be a hard working person. A good child usually makes parents happy, and parents are happy when their children do what they are supposed to do. For example, if a child is a student, she is supposed to study hard. If she studies hard, whether she gets good grade or not, her parents are pleased with her. In addition, in Vietnam we value children as good sons or daughters when they do not make their parents worry about them. For instance, a boy after graduation from a university got a job and worked hard. Although he did not get a good—paying job, he earned enough to take care of himself. That boy is a good son because he is self—reliant and his parents don’t have to worry about him. Being hard working has remained the same over time in my culture. Additionally, to be sympathetic is one of the most important qualities of a good child. Parents who have to work hard to feed their children are usually tired after a long day. As a result, they sometimes get angry easily and may overreact with their children very small mistakes. If their children were sympathetic, they would understand and would not hate or think that parents don’t love them...
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...“Should parents control the lives of their teenage children” Good morning teachers and students of the Basseterre High School. I wish to take this opportunity to share my position on the following question, should parents control the lives of their teenage children? It is most important that parents should have a very integral part in their children lives to guide and to mould them so that they can become respectful and loyal human being in society. As the bible teaches us as parents “we should train up our children in the way they should grow that when they are old they will not depart from it” (it meaning what they where thought as children growing up). To be respectful of other, as they are of themselves, be patient, forgiving, kind, loving, thoughtful. Our society does not like unruly nor disrespectful children. They do not fit into society when they are misbehaved and become delinquent children. They will be seen as trouble makers and as such do not fit well into society. It is very vital for parents to control the lives of their children. Parents need to help them to develop good decision making skills and to provide security both physically and emotionally. Parents are obligated to provide food, clothing and shelter for their teenage children. Therefore, if parents are the ones providing the necessities of life they should have full control over their children lives as teenagers. Teenagers are very dependent on their parents. They look to their parents for...
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...explains different concepts about what makes an adult, not what is consider an adult by law. Feinberg talks about parents patriae which is the parents power to look over their children’s own good. Parents decided for their children because children do not have the capacity to do it for themselves. Its protecting children’s right, if parents torture, beat, mutilate children, or who refuse to permit children to be educated parents patriae will intervene for the child’s well being. Feinberg talks about self-determination and self-fulfillment, which are the concepts of how children become adults and the responsibilities that come as an adult and its decisions. Self-determination has two concepts which are the capacity and sovereign authority. Self-fulfillment is when the individual fulfills his/her own good. Feinberg defines an adult based on their capacities and knowledge to know what is the best for them, not their age. Depending on their abilities is how people get treated. It would be an adult legally but acts like a...
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...Johnson Abstract For children, divorce can be stressful sad and confusing. As a parent you can make the process and its effects less painful for your child’s stability. References: * Growing up Great: Understanding Children's Reactions to Divorce * University of New Hampshire Cooperative Extension: The Effects of Divorce on Children * Plainview-Old Bethpage Congress of Teachers: Children and Divorce * Family Facts: How Home Shapes Children's School Experience effects of divorce on your child’s classroom behavior will vary based on the climate in your household during the divorce, your child’s disposition and their ability to handle change., “the most important factor for children’s well-being seems to be limiting the amount and intensity of conflict between parents.” In short, you can minimize such disturbances by limiting your child’s exposure to negative dynamics. I will explain four main categories such as: Depression a California child therapist Lori Rappaport, explains that depression is common among children whose parents are divorcing or who have recently divorced. Your child’s depression might present in the classroom through tearfulness and being sad and withdrawn. Likewise, a child who was once talkative in class might become withdrawn and quiet and have difficulty coping with any academic pressures or challenges. These depressive symptoms might make it difficult for your child to perform to his full potential. Aggression and...
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...lives of youth today will be examined. It will also look at what impact family and community have on youth and the morals of society. Together we can find possible solutions to drastically reduce delilnquency. Delinquency in America: 3 Family Structure, Life, and Involvement There is a rise in delinquency and a blatant lack of respect from the youth of today. This increase has been caused by a significant shift in the family dynamic since the 1950’s and 1960’s, today’s constantly changing society, the devaluation of morals in society, and desensitization caused by media and entertainment. As sad as it may be, this is the way things are today. When one thinks of the traditional American family they picture something like the Cleavers from Leave it to Beaver or the Cunninghams from Happy Days. The father would go to work all day and come home to dinner on the table. The mother would do her own equally important work keeping the household together daily. Children even had their duties; they would go to school, play some kind of sport, play in the neighborhood until dinner and just be kids. Let’s look at the role the father played fifty to sixty years ago. For the most part the father was the earner or breadwinner for the family. It was his job to provide for the family. He would go to work, pay the bills and be the disciplinarian in the household. It was also his job to teach the boys how to grow into men with good work ethics, morals and respect for women. The father was...
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...during your open day. Your speech is focused to this area, “ What does it take to be a good parent?”. In your speech, describe the characteristics of a good parent. Give specific details to explain your views. Use your personal observations, experience, and knowledge. It is a dream of every parent to see their children grow up and be a successful person. It is the duty of the parent to nurture their child since childhood so that they can shape their own future and ale to make a wise decision. Parent plays an important roles in educating their children. But not all parent know what it takes specifically to be a good parent to their children. First of all what it takes to be a good parent is to spend time with your children. One of the reasons why spending time with their children is important is because children need attention while growing up. Even teenagers need attention because they tend to be influenced by their peers. Negative influence can affect the children way of life. This also applies to young children. Sometimes young children cannot differentiate between what right and wrong. As a parent, we need to guide them and show what is good and what is bad. For example young children sometimes tend to take what doesn’t belong to them because they didn’t know that taking others belonging is consider stealing. So what the parent must do is by giving them advice that taking other’s belonging is wrong. Parent must guide them and give advice. Teach them to ask for apology...
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