...Andersen is merely a freelance author of two books and a creator of the website “Lovefraud.com.” She was wooed by a sociopath and married him. She catalogued all the information she discovered about sociopaths from her own experiences, and those of other people, and then wrote a guide to tell if you’re dating, married to, or interested in a sociopath. This book is all about the concept of “love fraud” and the people who commit it, named sociopaths. The contents of this book are firsthand stories of people who were with a sociopath. The author was married to one for years and she tells her story as well. This book also gives the “Red Flags” of Love fraud which are Charisma and charm, Sudden soul mates, Sexual magnetism, Love bombing, Blames others for everything, Lies and gaps in the story, Intense eye contact, Moves fast to hook up, Pity play, and Jekyll and Hyde personality. This book also lists the traits of a sociopath being: Lying, Exploitation, Entitlement, Shallow emotions, Dominance, Irresponsibility, Need for Excitement, and Antisocial behavior. This book also lists those who a vulnerable to being preyed upon by a sociopath. Those who are Wounded, Need love, Lonely, Empathetic, Low self-esteem, Want a relationship, Trusting, Need assistance, Single parent, and those who are in Grief are all vulnerable to sociopaths. Being in a relationship with a sociopath is dangerous. They appear sweet and perfect, but in reality, they can give one health issues, financial and property...
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...The Sociopath Next Door Author: Martha Stout Book Review By: Nicole Hanks April 8, 2013 “1 in 25 ordinary Americans secretly has no conscience and can do anything at all without feeling guilty. Who is the devil you know?” “A chilling accurate portrayal of evil—the decent person’s guide to indecency.” Jonathan Kellerman If a sociopath lives next door, don't go over for coffee. In fact, don't admit to them that you drink coffee, don't talk to them, and for the love of all that's holy, don't ever ask if you can borrow a cup of sugar. Not even if you're baking a cake that is guaranteed to find you true love, a promotion, and give you the winning lotto numbers. Do not make nice with a sociopath. Or so you'll think after reading Martha Stout's book. The Sociopath Next Door is an intriguing look at these devious, tricky people who live a life without a conscience. She describes the sociopath as a person who doesn't have guilt or remorse, or a sense of conscience. Literally they have no conscience. Their minds are such that the sociopath is free to run among us in the world, doing what they like without feeling bad or upset. They don't lie awake at night, wishing they could take back a nasty remark. They don't bite back and keep from saying nasty things to the clerk at Blockbuster when asked to check their backpacks at the store. If they say something awful, they're not going to feel sorry for it. That really seems to be the gist of sociopath, the total lack of remorse or regard...
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...reason to do the right thing. Psychopaths are closely compared to sociopaths but they have a very distinct difference that keeps sociopaths out of trouble unlike psychopaths. Sociopaths are not criminal by nature, you can argue that about psychopaths or anyone but, they are very charismatic and don’t have a moral compass like psychopaths. Sociopaths are independent thinkers and lack empathy so they can’t relate to others so they mostly isolate themselves. This isolation makes them a non-threat to society as a whole. Being a sociopath isn’t necessarily a bad thing. A NPR report about a real life sociopath debunks these rumors on sociopaths with her book. The differences between Psychopaths and Sociopaths might be small but it makes a difference in their behavior. Being said sociopath isn’t always good, but there isn’t much research on sociopathic behavior to show it has a “bad” side. In the report by NPR is done on M.E. Thomas who is a diagnosed sociopath and she talks about her experience as a sociopath. Her book is called Confessions of a Sociopath: A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight and she uses an alias because sociopaths are not viewed as positive by society’s standards. She reveals that most sociopaths “are not incarcerated and the silent majority often live freely and anonymously” “They’re your neighbors, colleagues, maybe even family members and lovers.” Most don’t make there presents known, unlike psychopaths who like to have their presence known and acknowledged by everyone...
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...Characteristic Traits among Genders: The Sociopath and Psychopath by Evelyn J. Dotson MS, University of Phoenix, 2015 Thesis Submitted in Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree of Master of Science Psychology University of Phoenix March, 2015 Abstract Psychopathic and sociopathic general characteristic traits are found in both genders in various populations. More research on the general characteristic traits of females is needed. Research for the female populations will give professionals information about the differences displayed between genders. Different applied sciences will also further their knowledge in treatment options for either tendency. The study used explored if any differences existed between genders with intensified levels of psychopathic traits in regard to psychopathy factor scores. The sample consisted of 2,500 people of both genders (52.6% women) (M=22.15; SD=1.38) from the generalized population, aged 20-24. Results displayed women with psychopathic personality traits had significantly higher levels of behavioral tendencies than men of the same. The genders did display a difference in aggressive behavior. The men showed a significant amount of aggressive behaviors compared to the women. The gender differences displayed in the seven psychopathic features show the variations needed for treatment options. Differences and Similarities in Generalized Characteristic Traits among Genders: The Sociopath and Psychopath by Evelyn J. Dotson ...
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...Is cheating and murder analogous? Is it the adrenaline rush of possibly getting caught? Maybe it’s like a drug once you start it you can’t stop. The legal definition of a serial killer is someone who has killed at least three people in a matter of thirty days. All serial killers are psychopaths and sociopaths, but be that as it may not all sociopaths and psychopaths are killers. To know a killer we have to get into the mindset of one. Nevertheless, the question that still stands is what makes a serial killer? The dictionary definition of a serial killer is a person who commits a series of murders, often with no apparent motive and typically following a characteristic, predictable pattern (Oxford). What is a sociopath? A sociopath is a person with a psychopathic personality whose behavior is antisocial, often criminal, who lacks a sense of moral responsibility or social conscience ( Dictionary). What is a psychopath? A psychopath is a person with a psychopathic personality, which manifests as amoral and antisocial behavior, lack of ability to love or establish meaningful personal relationships, extreme egocentricity, failure to learn from experience, etc (Dictionary)....
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...Serial killers are not new; there have been many accounts of serial killers in past ages and in many different places around the world, so it's not just a part of one unique nation or time period. For example, one of the earliest recorded cases of serial murder was Locusta of Galt of the Roman Empire, who preferred the method of poison and was highly rewarded. But not enough information was recorded about her as to know how many people she killed and the span of years the killings took place. And there has been some discussion as to whether or not people like Lacousta were "serial killers", since by modern standards, the definition is different. But the intent to kill is there. The most typical example of the modern day Serial killer is "Jack...
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...crafted crime. Analyzing it from the attribution theory, when it comes to perception of the action, where the behavior is observed, the case got the attention of the media because Amy was famous for her parents’ children’s book series named Amazing Amy. Nick’s media appearances got the public misinterpreting his socially awkward, wary demeanor. The judgment of intention, the way he hesitantly smiled at the cameras rubbed off the wrong way, that his emotional responses weren’t normal for a man who just declared his wife missing. The media judged this as a telling signs of a sociopath. The attribution of the action, they connected his behavior to a sociopath therefore jumping to the conclusion that Nick might have killed his own wife. Spiral of silence was when he was plotting his next move. Internalizing all the things Amy hurled his way. He didn’t stand up for himself. He just let the media lashed out and tore his name apart. He didn’t protest when he was being called a sociopath, didn’t voice out how hard it was to be constantly hounded by the reporters and photographers. It affected his so much he started to isolate himself from everyone he knows, even his sister. But when he gave in talked to her again, it was clear why. He remained silent because the opposition is the view of the majority. He was afraid to be subjected to rejection and to be the butt of all the negative things, he was growing sick of being called and suspected as a murderer, so he thought it would be...
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...open this film with consideringNightcrawler is a film that is devoid of emotion, sentiment or integrity. This form of detachment from human emotion does not stem from the film’s content, but rather from Jake Gyllenhaal’s portrayal of the film’s main character, Lou Bloom. Even in the strictest of definitions, the character is a sociopath who feeds off the vulnerability of others. By proxy of Gyllenhaal’s performance, the film transforms itself into an unapologetic film that chronicles the plight of its lead character without ever throwing judgment or morality upon his actions. A sociopath, in many regards, is opportunists. They craft a narrative and use their persuasive social skills to create an entry into individual’s lives, companies or corporations. Typically such personalities are perceived to be harmless, such as being personable and generating attention towards them. Also, their inability to feel guilt often feeds into their confidence, which allows for them to present themselves as being more than they actually are. Gyllenhaal’s performance occupies many of these qualities, to which the viewer must immediately acknowledge as being contradictory to who he truly is, which is a vindictive manipulator. However, Gyllenhaal’s Bloom is able to generate animosity towards him by continually smiling and giving direct eye contact to those he speaks to. Part of his charm also falls in that his eyes never deviate from whom he is speaking to and he is never the first to break the gaze...
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...Compulsive Lying Is your husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend a compulsive/pathological liar or a sociopath? To begin with, it may help to understand the difference between a pathological or compulsive liar and a sociopath (see, types of liars). Ultimately, making this type of distinction may not be that useful. Because in either case, the outcome is typically the same: dealing with a compulsive or pathological liar is very difficult to do. And unfortunately, sociopaths cannot be changed (see, lovefraud). A compulsive liar will resort to telling lies, regardless of the situation. Again, everyone lies from time to time (see, when lovers lie), but for a compulsive liar, telling lies is routine. It becomes a habit - a way of life. Simply put, for a compulsive liar, lying becomes second nature. Not only do compulsive liars bend the truth about issues large and small, they take comfort in it. Lying feels right to a compulsive liar. Telling the truth, on the other hand, is difficult and uncomfortable. And like any behavior which provides comfort and an escape from discomfort (i.e., alcohol, drugs, sex), lying can become addictive and hard to stop. For the compulsive liar, lying feels safe and this fuels the desire to lie even more. Making matters even more complicated, compulsive lying is often a symptom of a much larger personality disorder, which only makes the problem more difficult to resolve (see, narcissistic personality disorder and borderline...
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...David Gore as He is Revealed in The Serial Killer Whisperer Student Name Institutional Affiliation David Gore as He is Revealed in The Serial Killer Whisperer One of the key applications of psychology is in the civil and criminal justice systems. Hugo Munsterberg, a German- American psychologist, is believed to have been the first person to pioneer the application of psychology in research and theories relating to crime. His research formed much of what was later to be regarded as forensic psychology. The research covered false confessions, witness memory, and the role of hypnosis in court proceedings. Over time, the discipline has evolved to include the principles that law enforcement or psychologists could use in the interviewing of suspects and witnesses. Forensic psychology also covers the strategies used in deception and detecting lies while describing the process of assessing criminals for violence and re-offending risks. The overarching aim of the discipline is simply to understand criminal behavior along with the developmental risk factors related to such conduct, psychopathy, and sociopathy being the two most typical of the criminal acts. Pete Earley’s book The Serial Killer Whisperer recounts the life story of Tony Ciaglia, a man with the extraordinary ability to get serial killers to open up. In 1992, Ciaglia suffered a traumatic brain injury after a freak jet-ski accident. In spite of being pronounced clinically dead thrice while on the way to the hospital...
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...America’s Society, many calling for gun control and higher security of school campuses. Dylan Klebold is perceived in the Columbine novel as a depressed, suicidal teen that followed Eric and was practically hypnotized under his influence. He would attempt to commit crimes with Eric, even though he had difficulty covering his tracks and lies when confronted about them, as demonstrated on page 200 of the novel, paragraph two, “Dylan was no good at deception. He kept getting caught. Eric did not. Tom Klebold noticed that Dylan had a new laptop. Eric could have weaseled out of that one without missing a beat-- it was a friend’s… he’d checked it out of the computer lab. Dylan just confessed. His dad made him turn himself in.” Dylan was a sociopath, between his violations of the law, lying(although not very convincing as demonstrated...
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...isolated village in New Hampshire’s Lake District,” (Meyer & Weaver, 2009). His parents were Levi Horton Mudgett and Theodate Page Price. His mother was a devout Methodist always reading the bible to Hermann, while his father was more of a disciplinarian and alcoholic. “Hermann was a “delicately built boy, blue eyed and brown haired, with a reputation as ‘the brightest lad in town’ … his father… beat the boy with savage regularity,” (Meyer & Weaver, 2009). After a beating, Hermann would ordinarily spend a day in solitary confinement in the attic with no food or water. It was not only his father that was malicious toward him many children were too. “On one occasion they grabbed him, dragged him into the office of the village doctor, who was out on a call, and forced his face into the hands of the skeleton the doctor used for demonstrations,” (Meyer & Weaver). This experience led to his fascination with anatomy. When Hermann was 11 years, he began to dissect live animals and kept their bones. “His closest and possibly only childhood friend was killed in a suspicious “fall” while the two of them were playing in an abandoned house,” and he was apparently standing behind his friend during the incident, (Meyer & Weaver, 2009). When Hermann was 17 he married for the first time to Clara Lovering. Clara was wealthy and Hermann used that to his advantage. After the use of the money, Hermann left Clara. He then decided he wanted to become a physician and enrolled in school...
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...Interrupted The secondary main character within the film Girl, Interrupted (James Mangold, 1999) is Lisa who is played by Angelina Jolie. Lisa is a rebellious patient of Claymore Mental Institution in Massachusetts circa 1960. She is considered a sociopath in the medical field, and proves so by consistently pushing the boundaries of Claymore Institution in numerous ways. Lisa was identified as a sociopath due to her inability to feel remorse or sadness regardless of her behaviour. She frequently disobeys the staff as well as maintains a toxic relationship over the patients in which she controls and torments them for her own enjoyment. Despite her many destructive acts and rule-breaking attitude, Lisa is considerably unpredictable as she can also be kind and motherly to the patients. Lisa is an attractive caucasian female with blonde, choppy hair and grey blue eyes. She has a track record of running away from Claymore, where food supply is presumably low, which explains her look of malnourishment. Lisa has a tall and lanky frame in which she is around 5'7 and weighs 130 lbs. Lisa has a distinctive personality, as it is controlling and overpowering in comparison to her fellow patients. Although Lisa tends to act in such a cold manor that she seems inhuman, she does have a breakdown as she is confronted with her faults, which proves that despite her title as a sociopath, she does hold human emotion regardless of how much she desires to suppress sadness. The three most significant...
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...life. Is Tom really a psychopath or is he just a lonely soul looking for acceptance? To begin with, Tom's depiction of the ideal life is filled with wealth and reputation. He tries to mould himself into the man he thinks will be appreciated by society. This twisted image of society and its standards leaves the reader questioning who is to blame when a sociopath is born. His desire to be Dickie Greenleaf is brutal and unmoral, but still relatable and empathetic. Tom's train of thoughts about loneliness and being admired is heartfelt and impossible to ignore. The talented Mr. Ripley shows how deception and voracity can almost transform anyone into a hedonistic, merciless human. Haysmith manages to almost manipulate the reader to feel sympathy for the miscreant as she describes his thoughts about belonging: "He only wanted a home, a base somewhere, after years of not having any." (Andersson and Ernst, Streams in Literature, 2007, p. 52). In addition to this, Tom is often referred to as an anti-hero. Reason behind this statement can be explained by Highsmith's narrative flow. The novel provides a striking insight into the mind of a sociopath in his quest to a life in which he is adored by society. Tom's character is comparable to a chameleon with many talents. One among these talents is being able to mimic personalities and eventually becoming them. This description of Tom can also be the definition of a psychopath as he tries to manipulate his way through an inexplicable...
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...Achbar and authored by Joel Bakan, explores the legal standard, basically inquiring: if corporations were people, what manner of people would they be? Making use of psychiatrical main beliefs and FBI forensic technics, and through several case studies, the motion picture ascertains that this “being”, the corporation, which has an ever-increasing power over the daily existence of almost all living creatures on earth, would be a sociopath. The case studies consist of a story concerning how two reporters were sacked from Fox News for declining to downplay a story about the risks of a product of Monsanto given to dairy cattle, and another regarding Bolivian employees who confederated to guard their rights on their own water provision. The commonness of corporate control over our lives is looked into by analyzing efforts to manipulate behavior, together with that of children. The key argument of the infotainment is that, as the corporate legal “body” under current law is regarded to be a person, founded on its characteristics and personality, is a sociopath. Bakan establishes this standpoint on several things but letting the Psychologist tackle the question while the expert deals with psychosis. The major problems of a corporation discussed in the film after assessing “The Corporation” are as follows: Irresponsibility – The corporation places others at risk in the quest for its own goals. Manipulativeness - It manipulates individuals to have an opinion in the quest for its goals...
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