...I have never liked talking in front of a large crowd, in fact, I hate it. I don’t know why; it just really has never been my thing. In this paper I will tell you about the different things I do when I talk in front of many people, what goes through my mind, and why I think I am so scared of talking. Talking in front of a group of people has NEVER, EVER been something easy for me to do. Not even when I was a little kid, even then I would always stutter or talk very quietly. Unless I know the group of people very well, then I can sometimes talk with no problems. In my opinion I think the reason to why I am so bad at talking in front of people is because I worry way too much about what people say and think about me. I am afraid to even stutter because I feel like I would get made fun of or the group would laugh at me. I have had a very rough past when it comes to interacting with others. I can remember many times I got made fun of for doing or saying something wrong and on the outside I would always act like it was nothing, sometimes I’d even laugh along with them, but really on the inside I felt horrible, as if I was “stupid” or miserable. It all started...
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...Last year I was a new student at Oakridge and I am having a blast here. Before that I went to Fort Worth Country Day. I am the only child and I have an intense passion for volleyball. I love traveling and learning about different cultures. I used to play the piano and do ballet but quickly got bored of it. I am planing going to Stanford and becoming a plastic surgeon. I know that public speaking will help me be the best I can be and help me strive for my goals. Throughout my life, I have not been involved in lots of programs where I had to speak in front of a crowd, so stage fright is a big weakness of mine. When I am talking to a small group, I know for a fact that I will look only at someone I trust and that I know will not judge me. Recently...
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...The Ohio University Alumni that I interviewed was Amanda Smith. Amanda graduated from Ohio University, in the Bachelor of Arts and Criminology program. She attended 2001-2005. Amanda is now employed as a Intensive Probation Officer as Franklin County Adult Probation. The day that I conducted this interview was March 5th, 2017. Why I decided to interview this person was because she reacted out to me on LinkedIn before I could even reach out to her. I checked out her profile and noticed she worked in the field that I want to pursue once I graduate college. She came across as an inviting and open person. She was very friendly and willing to help me along my journey to becoming a Probation Officer. My impression of the field before I conducted this interview was that I thought probation officers just sit in an office all day and work with different clients that have all different types of issues. After I conducted the interview I soon learned that there were so many different types of probation officers such as mental health, field, substance abuse, etc. I...
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...I can relate very well with the article on self-disclosure in a relationship. When I meet people for the first time I tend to open up about myself and what I want them to know right off. I will disclose what type of person I am which is down to earth and will be upfront with you about anything. I will let a person know how I feel about a situation and that I will not sugar coat the issue that I am dealing with. I also let them know that I am not a moody person, what they see is what they get each day. Being in a relationship I think it is very important to be self-disclosed because that is how people learn about each other’s. I also believe that some things you do not share and leave in the past especially if it’s not healthy for the future relationship. If the person wants a satisfaction relationship, self-disclosure has to in the picture. When you are in a relationship there are some things that you will not like the same, such as food, agree with the same movie to watch and no two people are alike. What may get on my nerves may not get on the other’s person nerve that is why self-disclosure is very important you get to know some of theirs likes and dislikes. The gender difference is so true when communicating. I can talk to my son and it seems like his mind is somewhere else and I have to say look at me when I am talking to you. On the other hand when I am talking to my daughter she looks at me the whole time I am talking to let me know she is listening to me. The similarities...
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... A F#m I'M HEARING VOICES TELLING ME D THAT I SHOULD GET SOME SLEEP E BECAUSE TOMORROW MIGHT BE GOOD FOR SOMETHING (Pre Chorus) C#m D HOLD ON A E I'M FEELING LIKE I'M HEADED FOR A C#m D BREAKDOWN A E I DON'T KNOW WHY (Chorus) A D I'M NOT CRAZY I'M JUST A LITTLE UNWELL I KNOW RIGHT NOW YOU CAN'T TELL F#m E BUT STAY AWHILE AND MAYBE THEN YOU'LL SEE A DIFFERENT SIDE OF ME A D I'M NOT CRAZY I'M JUST A LITTLE IMPAIRED I KNOW RIGHT NOW YOU DON'T CARE F#m E BUT SOON ENOUGH YOU'RE GONNA THINK OF ME D E AND HOW I USED TO...
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...types of Therapeutic Listening responses I have used with one of my patients Mrs Johns and also ways I overcame obstacles that affected communication between myself and Mrs Johns. Therapeutic Listening responses when caring for Mrs Johns Paraphrasing First we will look at three main types of Therapeutic Listening responses that are sometimes used in the field of nursing, the first response we look at it paraphrasing. Paraphrasing is taking what you have heard and repeating it in your own words, paraphrasing is important because it is a way of validating that you have understood accurately what was said and allows the patient to verify their statement (Lippincott Williams and Wilkins, 2008, p. 54). It is more to the point and shorter than the patients initial statement allowing you to focus on the main features of the first statement (Arnold and Boggs, 2011 p. 186). Times when you would use paraphrasing would be just after a patient has told you a statement about feelings or thoughts and you need to confirm what you are hearing is correct, it is important to paraphrase correctly so the patient dose not think you are trying to change what they have said or think you are putting words in their mouth. Below are two examples of paraphrasing with Mrs Johns. Example 1: Mrs Johns: “I am a little bit anxious today because my ulcer has been hurting for a little while now and I have had trouble walking around I hope it wont always be like this”. Me: “Mrs Johns what you are saying is that...
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...I started dating in 11th grade. I got asked out by a guy when we had English together. His name was Nathan Stanley. He was great to hang out and talking to him. When he graduated, we have been dating for a year. We were so strong when we were together. He was working to try to make my life better. When I graduated, we hang out more. We wanted to love forever. In the one year and a half, he started smoking. I was trying to make him stop smoking. One girl told me, “He can do anything he wanted.” I told him if you do not stop smoking I will leave you. After two years, he cheated on me with a girl that goes around. He told me that he left me before he dating the girl. After I broke it off, my friend had a fire. I brought my ex-boyfriend hat and...
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...For an hour I experienced what it would be like to be hearing impaired. In order to get a true experience of what it would be like to be hearing impaired, I put two orange ear plugs in both of my ears. These ear plugs are the type that people would where when going to the car race or when flying in a plan. The ear plugs did not work to simulate told deafness but did diminish my ability to hear quite a bit. I spent most of the hour that I simulated having a hearing impairment at Chili’s. I placed the ear plugs into my ear at the restaurant while my family and I were waiting for our food. After we finished eating at Chili’s, we went through the drive threw of McDonalds for chocolate ice cream and then drove home. When we got home my hour was...
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...it was already like that from the very start so that someone will come and complete that missing piece? I am Rebecca Wilson and this is the story of my life. Actually my loveless life! I was born in a town where everybody know your secret. A place where everyone expects you to graduate then get married. Have a family and pass on that very pressuring task. Forkstown is on the south of South America. It is surrounded by mountains that had been standing there since the dawn of time. Trees stand tall as the skies and leaves that shines when sun rays touches it. The river at the east of this town is a beauty that many town would pay for. This is the place where I learned that dreams do come true. I am not really sure if it is applied to everybody though. I was on the beach the day when I first saw him. He was walking by the beachfront and wearing the shirt I always loved. He was wearing a blue stripped football shirt and black pants. His hair is golden brown and changes color when sun rays touch it. His height is as of a real football player. I find it funny sometimes because his appearance is the opposite of who he is. He doesn't even have a speck of interest in sports. He doesn't watch basketball for pete's sake! Even I know more about the stats of Lebron James than him knowing about the pointing system in basketball. It is not his sporty look unlike any naive girls that made me fall in love with him. It is his wit and view in life. He is very open minded and very responsible. When...
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...I’LL GO BACK TO MALAYSIA TO WORK AT A HIGHER POSITION IN MY WORK. 2. I WANT TO IMPROVE MY SPEAKING AND LISTENING SKILLS IN THIS CAREER 3. I CAN MOSTLY COMPLETE READING AND WRITING, BUT MY SPEAKING AND LISTENING SKILLS STILL NEED TO BE IMPROVED. 4. I HAVE COMPLETED A SECONDARY SCHOOL LEVEL AND LCCI LEVEL IN MY COUNTRY, MALAYSIA. 5. I NEED TO TAKE CERTIFICATE III AND IV IN EAL COURSE FOR MY CAREER. 6. GOOGLE.COM 7. TWO YEARS. 8. MELBOURNE 9. - IMPROVE MY LISTENING SKILL - IMPORVE MY SPEAKING SKILL - COMPLETE CERTIFICATE III IN EAL - COMPLETE CERTIFICATE IV IN EAL - BACK TO MALAYSIA - WORK...
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...Self-Portrait I have a dream that I can travel around the world, and take picture from every place I have been, and share with my family and friends to encourage them to do what they dream. And I know my mother also likes to travel, but sadly, she always thinks taking good care of family is her only responsibility, she cannot leave home. I always tell her, “ Your kids are grown up. Don’t worry too much about us. Just go anywhere you want to go.” But she just cannot. So now, I am here. I took a lot of pictures and sent them to my mother, then told her about where I live and how it looks like here. I hope I can be a good writer or storyteller, when people read or listen to my story, they can feel they are here with me. Especially my mom, I wish I can use words with pictures to let her sees what I have seen. I was thinking to write a letter for my father before I came here, but I failed it, I cannot written up what I was thinking. My father is a traditional Chinese father, his face is always looks like serious, and he doesn’t talk too much, also sometimes I don’t really talk to him, it is because I can feel that he always thinks I am too childish and I don’t like that feeling. The night makes me so impressive. We were talked for few hours in the night of Taiwan Father’s Day which is on October 8th. We were talking about our past, our present, my future, our religion, my career and future goals. I don’t remember we had talked so long like this time. I talked to him just like me talk with...
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...penis. I personally think I’m funny looking, but to this one girl I am one handsome devil. Before this girl came along in to my life. I had what some would say self confidence issues. Drinking every weekend, not caring about the outcome of any situation, was how I was. I didn’t have sex a lot as a single man, and actually have only had sex about half a dozen times in the past year. I have this addiction to scary monsters and horror thriller films. But enough about that stuff. On new years eve of 2015 to 2016 my resolution was to slow down. Pay attention to my life and my career. A few days later this girl my best friend had just started talking to told me she had a girl for me. My first thought was really? What does that even mean? Curious I said “yeah tell her to hit me up”. That very night the most gorgeous woman I had ever seen, messaged me. I was stoked and it sounded like she was too. The first couple of days we were just talking, shooting the shit, getting to know each other. On January 7th, we made it official she was mine and I was hers. Talking everyday, falling madly in love with each other. From week one I knew this girl was the one. She is perfect everything about her just clicked with me. It wasn’t long before I told her I loved her. The most amazing feeling was when she said it back. My heart pounding in my chest fulfilled with ever lasting joy. With her it’s not about the naked pictures, the phone sex, or the fact that she is drop dead gorgeous. Not that I don’t...
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...approved structure. 4. Feel secure knowing that the people whom I trust are around me. 5. Enjoy attending celebration and wedding function. 6. Like to make constructive critics on my reading material. 7. Feel comfortable living in an area with few neighbors. 8. Enjoy a changing condition of life. 9. Not easily discourage when faced with complicated problems. 10. Always avoid asking question for fear of being wrong. 11. Wishing that others will consider me as a leader. 12. Going all-out to help friends who are facing problems. 13. Expect compliment from others in order to avoid myself from feeling stress. 14. Like a clear structure tasks. 15. Hoping that others will consider me as a successful person. 16. As far as I am concern I never hate others. 17. Feel comfortable asking friends and other professionals for help whenever I have problems. 18. Like to think critically of everything that I do and see. 19. Think of way to solve my own problems. 20. Avoid saying things that can make someone angry. 21. Enjoy speaking in large groups. 22. Enjoy thinking of complicated and challenging problems. 23. Often hide my feelings from others. 24. Dislike following any rigid schedule for free time activities. 25. Always sleep late at night in order to finish the task that I had started earlier. 26. Feel frustrated when I think that I am unable to control the situation. 27. Always make important by myself...
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...Because I can't see anything to be unhappy about my life. I don't seek more for happiness. I had developed the capacitiy to enjoy less. I have very few but precious people in my life. I most likely to appear as a timid person but deep inside me, I'm happy. My life is not perfect. I am not perfect. But happiness is about the acceptance of what you already have. If the simple things in life don't put a smile on my face then I will never be truly happy. First thing's first. Who am I? I'd say I'm a typical teenage girl who have just enough craps that I decided to smile and just be happy. I know myself better than anyone else. I can go on a day without talking to anyone. Just me, myself, and I. Not talking to anyone is schematic. I keep things for myself and no one can destroy my reputation for I don't talk. If people call me, I'd turn to them and smile even if it against me. It would be a shame if I don't react on people addressing me but more likely I wouldn't care that much. I don't like being in the spotlight though I accept merits. I like putting my profile low. I don't dream of becoming anything or anyone else other than being me. I can be fake at most times making it look like I have a high self-esteem even if I don't. I have a very selfish sense of myself and that's just me. I am happy that way. My social self depends on who I am. I am a daughter following my parents' creed. I am a sister to inspire my siblings. I am a student studying hard to learn and graduate on...
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...Reflection #5 My Experience with Loss I have not experienced any significant loss in my life yet however my parents got divorced when I was a senior in high school. I went to boarding school known as Tabor Academy, which was only 45 minutes away from home. I remember I was so glad to go to boarding school because at the time my parents were fighting a lot. This was a place where I could go to get away from all of the drama that was happening at home. My two brothers also went to other boarding schools. We enjoyed going to school away from home in order to not deal with our parents. One weekend my senior year, I was eighteen years old, my brothers and I came home. Our parents sat us down and told us how they were no longer going to be able to make it work. At the moment we were told this I broke down in tears. It felt like this had come out of nowhere. Even though I knew that our parents were fighting a lot I just thought that is what couples did sometimes. I had so many thoughts running through my head such as whom would I live with or would we move far away? I asked my parents whether or not it was our fault that they were breaking up. It now seemed like things would be so complicated. During this time music was one thing that was the most helpful. For years after my parent’s got divorced they constantly fought. They put my brothers and I in the middle of all of their arguments. It was so hard for my parents to find a way to take care of all of us together...
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