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Who knew that so much could change in so little time? Who knew that all your hopes and dreams you had for yourselves could completely vanish from sight, seemingly lost for good? Who knew a person could feel so, utterly alone? Because I didn’t. Until I did. I will forever know now. The days where I distanced myself from everyone and the week I didn’t show up to school won’t go away. The nights of tears and desperate attempts to make anyone, anyone, notice that things weren’t okay will always be remembered. They are just memories now, but will forever be a part of me. It was these days and nights where I learned just how strong I was. Without them, I would not be the same person because sadness changes you. It makes you understand the world in a new, unexplainable way. …show more content…
You drown in yourself. It impossible to truly describe the feeling with words. It’s like everyone is moving around you at high speed and you’re stuck in slow motion being forced to watch them all and you want to join them, but you can’t catch up because you can’t seem to make your limbs move fast enough. You can’t be like them no matter how hard you try. It is like you are the eye of the hurricane, watching everything spin around you and you can’t stop it. You are stuck. You are stuck. You are stuck. Until someone comes and they pull you out and you are no longer drowning and you remember how to move like everyone else and the hurricane has died down. Thank god for those who see you, for the ones who notice that you don’t seem okay even though you’ve said you are so so so many times, trying to make yourself believe that you are in fact okay. Without these people, you’d just be another statistic. Another teenage tragedy composed of tears and flowers and condolences. People will think they should’ve saved you, they should’ve said something. And they’re right. They should have said something. They could have. I am lucky enough to not be a statistic. Someone saved me. He

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