Growth and Personal Evolution

Change is something many people experience whether its good or bad. Change is something that naturally happens. Sometimes it takes certain obstacles to push people to make necessary changes to grow as a person. Some people have to go through a near death experience to change their way of living life, people have to make dramatic changes in order to learn from there mistakes, blocking out negatively is one of the main things one must do to stay focus.

Near death experiences perceive themselves as equally and fully loving each and all, openly generous excited about the potential and wonder of each person they see. Confused family memebers tend to regard this sudden switch in bahavior as oddly threatening, as if their loved one had become aloof, un-responsive, even uncaring or unloving. Within some households, relatives are so impressed by what they witness with their loved one that they change too, making near death experience a "shared" event. In other families, though, the response is so negative that alienation, seperation, or divorce results. The situation who undergo the same after effects as adults, can be doubly challenging, since they lack the ability to speak up for themselves, negotiate, or seek alternatives.

People have to make a dramtic change in order to learn from there mistakes. You can only learn from a mistake after you admit you've made it. As soon as we start blaming other people (or the universe itself) people distance themselves from any possible lesson. But if you courageously stand up and honestly say "This is my mistake and i am responsible" the possibilities for learning will move toward themselves admission of a mistake, even if only privately to yourself, makes learning possible by moving the focus away from the blame assignments and towards understanding. Wise people admit their mistakes easily. They know progress accelerates when they do.

Blocking out negativity is one of the main things one must do to stay focus, all dark energies that eneruate us, only succeed at draining us because they are capable of making us see mentally and emotionally charged images of past defeats. These images, drawn from the storehouse of our memories, seem so real that they validate the existance of our negative conclusions. Having a positive outlook on life is necessary for people to stay focused on achieving positive results. Negative energy can surround you